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Correct they'd want to play up. Also other parents would give them the stink eye for playing down for wins. |
This! Everyone saying “nothing is changing we don’t know for sure” I think is fooling themselves. It’s true we don’t know for sure yet, and likely won’t until spring. However we do know that U.S. soccer said “you can change if you want to in 2026” and U.S. Club, AYSO, and USYS already said they’d all do the same thing and seem to support SY. So that seems to me like the ship had sailed. Like it or not. At least some leagues will change and that will trickle down to others. |
| Yeah, read the public statements from the heads of U.S. Club and USYS and it’s pretty clear they are headed to SY next year. |
Kids classified by soccer year below their school grade would be playing soccer on age. Their choice would be to play on age to get picked for the best teams, best coaches and best positions and get optimal playing time versus playing up with their school grade peers, a better challenge in practice, possibly having to play on a lower level team and to align for possible college recruitment. There is not a one size fits all to this choice which seems to bother people. |
please post the link from the head of US Club's statement |
They could play on age (and benefit from being the oldest), get recruited on their team’s timeline (not their fault their school has a late cutoff), take a gap year between highschool and college to get school and soccer aligned, and continue to play with their club team during the gap year. |
Ugh... Cheaters gonna cheat. This is why we can't have anything nice. Instead of working the system to play down just play up and at least try to makenyour kid a better player. |
Read the Twitter of US Club's CEO and the quotes in this article below. And also read the CEO of USYS' statements and their views are pretty clear (pro-SY). https://www.socceramerica.com/youth-soccer-dilemma-are-calendar-year-age-groups-an-error-worth-fixing/ |
How is it cheating? They’d be playing at level. You sound like a Q1/Q2 parent hoping to keep a few spots open for your bubble player. |
Problem is most kids/parents aren't unicorns who play up. They toil away in the current system and will have little choice once their club decides what's next. The choice they do likely have is try to find a new club OR team BUT if most clubs act consistently there won't be options to stay in their BY. The sad part is in a lot of cases they've played years with some of their cohort and will have to give that up. Sure, for some, this will be a good thing where they can maybe shine on a new team. For others, they'll just leave the sport sooner than they otherwise would have. |
There is always a path if you're good enough. The reality is your child is young for their grade. None of these decisions with USSF has any bearing on that. You were always facing an obstacle as far as college recruiting goes. Your question is really 'how do I take a very young player in their grade and prep them for college soccer recruitment'. If college is their goal I'd ensure my child played with their proper grade for as long as possible. Find the clubs that will let them play up. Start with Flight 3 and work your way to ECNL (if a girl). William and Mary is D1. If you want to play D1 ball your aim is ECNL, maybe GA. Washington and Lee is D3. They are likely recruiting more locally, they too want ECNL and GA kids but may be willing to take a flyer on NPL, E64, etc. But I want to be clear, its not easy to play D3 soccer. Those kids are really good, sometimes better than D1, the reasons for choosing that school vary. There's entire discussions and strategies on getting recruited. Start studying, start making moves but do it at the grade level they will graduate. In your case 'play up'. There are a million routes to college ball. JUCO, Walk-on, ID Camps, Showcases, etc. But what doesn't change is your kid MUST be talented. Please don't push them beyond their capabilities. That is when this gets very sad. Play them up, make a judgement on their abilities as the years go on and guide them by offering hope but wrapped in the reality you see on the field. |
Please use a dictionary to learn the definition of cheating before frivolous accusations. |
We're definitely going to 400 pages because you continue to miss the point! Little Suzy as a trapped player has to play a grade above. My DD is in this and it has always been a thing. In Kinder the 1st graders were more developed. In 6th grade her friends moved to junior high. Playing a grade up has a developmental impact and most Q4 players quit. Why quit when your in the older group for your recruiting class? Because its not fun. My DD is a talented player and its STILL been challenging over the years. I'll have zero complaints when we change to SY. My ask is simple, let me DD play with her grade. You know, the one she's going to college with. Stop making her play with girls a grade up. She's out of sync, its developmentally weird and offers zero benefit. Pick some dates that make sense. But keep ranting about January kids are more talented and everyone else should sit down and how perfect the current system is, blah blah. It's what keeps the forum going! |
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I love when people say, just have your daughter play up, done! lol, BY parents are lost. What if I told you to have your January kid play a year up. C'mon, if they are good enough they should be able to do it, right?! It's all about talent. Have your 8th grader play with 9th graders. Why not?
It's the dumbest argument in the world. Let every kid play with their grade, let them grow up together and let the best kids get scholarships. It's not that hard to understand. |
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Still nothing from the 5 stages of grief BY guy?? He tucked tail and ran quick when the real news starting coming out. lol.
Now its just the BY bubble parents trying to find any remaining way to hold on to this broken system. Face it, you'll need to compete with your peers. Stop being afraid. You have one more season to play with little kids, then it'll be time to grow up. You know your kid wasn't getting a scholarship anyway so relax. |