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He had his email logged in and I was bored so i quickly searched his exes name and up pops an email he wrote to her back from when they were together. It was a love letter. He was so passionate and expressive and wrote about what an amazing time he had that weekend with her and how he can't get her outbid his mind and wishes so badly that he was with her.
I'm jealous. His lie letters to me do not contain that sense of urgency and passion.
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How passionate and urgent are you with him these days? |
| He was younger then. Men are much more passionate when the are younger. My DH was and I mean with me. |
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When I'm bored I paint my toenails. I suggest you try it instead of looking for trouble.
You're his present. The end. |
| You sound really insecure. |
| Why did they breakup? |
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I had a girl once that I was very passionate with. More so than my wife of 17 years.
The sex was great but otherwise we sucked together. Nothing but drama. My wife and I are much more compatible and I have no doubts about who I should have married. |
+1 on this. Had a very passionate, wild, very sexual relationship with a woman when I was younger. However, she had issues "beyond the dreams of analysts" (to quote Mel Brooks). DW is not as wild, we're both older, the sex is less frequent and more vanilla, but I wouldn't trade what I have with her. |
| How long ago was this letter written? |
| I was told once that men don't marry the one they most passionately love. That was the case with me. But it would never have lasted. |
| Be sorry you snooped. Don't be sorry they exist. Here and now is all that really matters. You are not her, she is not you. Chances are he's a different man - you couldn't have this man if your wanted him. |
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I honestly think people go looking for trouble when they want to find it.
Out of boredom or a need for drama, or whatever. Forget you saw it, move on. |
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Shake it off. If he wanted to be with her he would.
I used to have hot kinky sex before I got married. Now I have every blue moon boring married sex. I love my DH and boring is the price of being with him - so be it, |