So...what stuff do you have and use regularly from an ex (or exes)

[Anonymous]

That your SO may not exactly know about, and if you mentioned it, probably would not go over well?

[Anonymous]

Huh?

[Anonymous]

Nothing. When I moved out, he offered me a bunch of kitchen things he knew he'd never use. Neither of us stole from each other.

[Anonymous]

The kid. But I think fiancé is almost 100% sure that she is XH's.

[Anonymous]

Nothing. We split everything in an honest and agreeable manner.

[Anonymous]

Nothing at all. I was in such a hurry to leave I left a few things I wish I still had.

[Anonymous]

Nothing. We each took what was ours & split everything else fairly. I still have & use lots of things from him, but nothing I snuck away.

[Anonymous]

I think OP means, does the new SO know about what you still have from the ex-SO.

My answer = nothing, really. Although I did continue to wear a pair of pearl earrings from an ex, until it started to bother ME. Then bought a new pair.

[Anonymous]

I have a few odds & ends of clothing - stuff I'd rather not have to go out and buy...a set of steak knives I think. Some of it has sentimental meaning, but most does not.

[Anonymous]

My ex-husband and I shared a Netflix account for about 2 years after we divorced. It was my account, but I let him use it. His Amazon account is also still associated with my Amazon Prime account.

My now-husband didn't know about the Netflix thing and got annoyed by it, particularly since on our home TV, we used his account. He was like, why are you paying $12/mo for something that only he uses? The honest answer was "because I am lazy and didn't bother to cancel it." So I canceled it, and now we're fine. The Prime thing I have never mentioned, because I don't know how to undo it and don't really care.

[Anonymous]

Just the memories. Spank bank!

[Anonymous]

I wore an ex's army PT shorts as pajamas for ages because they're really comfortable. I probably have a few other things from various relationships, but nothing that immediately comes to mind.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just the memories. Spank bank!

You know, I have some ex-gfs in the spank bank, but ex-spouse? NFW.

[Anonymous]

For a long time, some kitchen appliances belonged to an ex-GF who gave it to me when she moved away, but it's mostly been upgraded over the years.

I still have a few shirts and ties that exes gave me over the years.

[Anonymous]

Some jewelry and a few designer handbags that were gifted by exes over the years. DH knows about them but not which items were specifically bought by another guy and he's fine with it, saved him some money from not having to buy them.