Probably varies a bit, there’s a spectrum. But it is surprising to have made enough of an impression cold at tryouts in that age group |
What positions? |
|
Preselected doesn’t necessarily mean the same players from last year. Coaches can have eyes on players that didn’t play for them the year before |
I hate that all that happened, but thank you for the public service announcement. My DD only tried out for 3 clubs, got offers at all 3, and we didn't really know about Mojo until we heard about them at tryouts from DD's friends from the last 2 years of playing. We wondered if we'd missed a chance at a great new team... SO GOOD TO KNOW we were better off being oblivious, and now we actually know to steer ALL the way clear of Mojo. If we see them playing at any tournaments (or go up against them), I'll keep all this history and dirty deeds in the back of my mind for sure. |
It totally depends on the team that DD plays for. First off, some club dues go over $5k. A lot of teams for girls 13+ travel to multiple multi-day tournaments out of town, some of which require flying. Hotel+travel (gas/tolls or flights/taxis)+food for 2 can = $5k+. Basically, there is a wide range for how much club volleyball can cost. |
My DD's 2nd year trying out, she got an offer from her #1 club right away. But I'd done research (and had read a lot here on DCUM!) and wanted to her to still go to try out of a 2nd, less "famous" club but one that I heard really did play all the players and developed all players. She tried out for them 2nd, got an offer on the spot, and both she and her dad & I all agree we preferred this 2nd club. We did wait until we actually received both offers to make sure we got all our questions answered, but we went with the 2nd club. While I doubt by the time you're trying out for 6 clubs you really need to wait to see what happens with all 6, I do think having a few to check out and ask all questions and find out practice schedules can all make what looked like a clear #1 slip to neck & neck with #2, or to just go with a club you didn't think you'd like that much until the tryout. I don't plan for us to ever try out for 6 clubs, but I can see 3 or 4 and going through with all 3 or 4 before making a final decision among the offers received. |
How do they assess which girls to send to that "Ignored Court" just from them checking in? Aside from obvious height preferences and maybe some other judgements about bodies they shouldn't make, how do they know which girls they want to ignore right from the start? Is there really NO ONE (including whoever is running the exercises) keeping an eye out for someone who should be moved to a more competitive court? What about girls they think look good at first and then realize are much newer/less talented players? Do they move them to the "We're not even paying attention" court? |
I can tell you some clubs that did this really missed a chance to get some higher caliber players with this approach |
So you don't know then. Actually keep track of expenses and report back in a year. My DD played a mid level ECP team last year, and I kept track of expenses (and they required pay to play hotels, even though we didn't use them every time). One weekend in particular was $1,000 with 2 nights in a hotel, tolls, gas, food, parking, tickets (for spectator), etc. I literally kept a spreadsheet. This was going to Spooky Nook and getting the AM schedule so you had to go up the night before. Just because you are driving doesn't mean it isn't $$$$$$$. Your club fees DON'T include: gas, tolls, parking (this is a bigger expenses than you think), spectator tickets (you have to pay to watch your own kid play), food for you and your kid (because you are going to be there for 6-12 HOURS, a day, and a lot of places will not allow you to bring things in, but we got pretty good at it) and you still have to eat breakfast, lunch and dinner (and often the team goes out to eat together), volleyball shoes, swag at some of the tournaments (like overpriced hoodies), etc. |
My question would be just what you get at in last point: what REALLY is the level of play? How rigorous will the coaching & practices be? And how competitive will the tournaments be if they're only at their facility? But if all those are at a good level, I can think of a several U15 age girls who we know who were left club-less that if this was an option and practices were in workable locations, they'd be all in. So, who knows more about it that is reliable info? Yes, we could tell people to call the club, but this is where insider info is so very important about what is really likely to happen... |
So true! It really adds up. |
I'm the PP you're replying to, and the quote I was answering just said $10,000 for a regional club season. There's stuff on your copied list that we've never done/paid for: personal trainer; 3-4 camps (our girls have done 3 per summer max (usually 2) and total cost of 3 never exceeded $2,000). We don't track gas for the car but I'm positive it doesn't take our total from maybe max $6,000 up to $10,000/year! |
Exactly what I think. That is for Travel, and we are super clear we are not a travel family. Can't afford the money or the time. But one of these posts said that $10k/season applies to regional clubs, and except for maybe a couple super expensive Virginia ones, that just doesn't seem true at all. |
Well we can each only speak from our own and our friends' DDs experiences, and a bunch of us have girls who did NOT do clinics and find it hard to believe coaches were watching our girls from afar last year but didn't talk to us. To "preselect" you obviously have to have a conversation on the sidelines to at least make sure your preselected chosen ones are AWARE that they're preselected, to dissuade them from trying out everywhere else and getting picked by a possibly better team. So in our experiences, and these are popular teams, there were many girls made offers who didn't do clinics (many others who did though), and who didn't play for the club ever before those tryouts. Main point being, in our short experience so far (but also according to many vet VB parents we've met): there is enough movement & fluidity that going to tryouts for say 3+ teams that you really hope to get a spot on (with maybe one "safety team" so you don't end up clubless) is worth it, even at most demanding ages. Just avoid the clearly, infamously pre-rostered clubs (like apparently Mojo although their pre-selected players seem to not all have pre-selected them ![]() |