+1 My kid had processing "issues" when she took the test and she is practically a speed reader with a huge vocabulary. It's processing other kinds of information that's a problem. "Processing speed" covers a lot of ground. |
| Reading speed is a skill, processing speed is an attribute or capability. The two aren't necessarily well-correlated. |
| I'm another person whose kid scored "average" due to wild discrepancies in her scores, which helped diagnose her ADHD. She's never done an IQ test while on her meds. I'd be interested to see if that yielded different results. |
Your kid may or may not have a high iq. But you and your wife are not objective. The current test you have is more objective than the two of you. |
Why not? Who finds out? And how do they find out? |
+2 My child scored PSI in the 30th percentile and is a highly gifted reader...but her other scores were in the gifted range including FSIQ at age 8. She’s extremely intelligent—I think that’s why she likes to read and is do good at it. I also suspect her low processing speed makes her turn to books more than other activities that would require fast processing speed. So in effect, her LD makes her look smarter. She has dysgraphia btw. |
This is spot-on. I remember when my 7 year old DS got his WISC scores. His FSIQ was 115, even though he seemed whip-smart to people, including his teachers. My MIL - who is a teacher - suggested that the test must be wrong. I looked at her and said, "Really? You think it is more likely that the test is wrong than that we are deluded?" He is in high school now (at a Big 3 even) and doing well academically. Not straight As, but a mix of As and Bs. |
| OP...manage your expectations and all will be fine. We want all our children to have the best and the best differs individually. Sometimes, it may be a wake up call but at least there are great private school or even public school options in this area. It is not the end of the world if your DC doesn't get into a Big 3. As most PP have posted, sometimes it just takes time for your DC to "blossom" and you need to tone your expectations down to reflect that reality. Hope all this helps! |
Would NOT recommend her - she completely missed a major attention problem with my child that three other subsequent testers in later years saw. |
As the other posters have pointed out at this age there is no real way to see a child "excelling" Is she doing calculus? She may be verbal, an early reader, or a well-behaved girl (teachers love them). Sorry but she is just average and although you would not know it from DCUM - she will be ok. Very unlikely the test will change a lot next year. |
| I have a kid with a full-stop ADHD diagnosis who rocked the WISC with a 140 IQ and no processing issues. So for those of you who think you are in the clear bc of a good WISC and high IQ it doesn't mean ADHD is impossible. |
OP, the fact that so many of the scores are close together suggests that the test is accurate and that you and your wife's perceptions may be of a well-nurtured, well-prepared child who is of average intelligence. This is not a terrible fate, despite what DCUM may make you think. Further, there are many different kinds of intelligences, and the WISC measures only a very narrow kind. Are you and your wife gifted? Intelligence has a hereditary component, with some researchers suggesting about 50%, others suggesting that it is closer to 85%. Most of the time, people are not surprised when their children turn out to be gifted. Our DCs score in a tight IQ range that is also inhabited by DH and me. While test scores are not the be-all and end-all of admissions, in a very competitive admissions game, it can matter. If a school like Sidwell or NCS is looking at two girls who are otherwise fairly similar in background, personality, race, etc., then the test score is what distinguishes one over another. I agree with previous posters that you don't want to put a child into an environment where they can't keep up. |
I thought I was going to score 1600 on the SATs when I took them, then I was floored when I received my scores... When I took the MCATs, I was looking at 15’s on all subjects but wasn’t even close after seeing the results. Sometimes, we all think we are smarter than the person next to us but in the end we’re all “just” average. I am still very successful and live in Bethesda with two kids in private schools that I’m paying over 40k for with no financial aid. I live in a 3m house, went to public schools all my life, even public college yet I am where I am today as a successful doctor. We all do what is best for our kids but sometimes “being average” is good enough. |
Sounds about right for an above aver3bright kid. What were you expecting? 130-150+ ? |
Tester shopping invalidates the score but if you find the right tester for the right price you can probably get whatever score you want and which makes you happy. |