Age for apple watch?

[Anonymous]

Way too young. Like by 4 or 5 years.

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Anonymous wrote:This is OP, thanks for the feedback. My child has been reporting that several friends have them. One does have divorced parents and one an older sibling who has one (I think sibling is in 5th). I want to hold off on this as long as possible!

I don’t understand this. If you want to hold off as long as possible, just don’t buy one? She’s the child, and an 8 year old one at that. You are the adult and parent. So parent.

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Anonymous wrote:I despise them, as I've seen lots of examples of kids constantly distracted by incoming texts. This is outside of school, but I've heard from my kids that the watches are not really locked down.

We did phones in 7th for my older two, which were easy to put in a drawer, not attached to their bodies, and easy to lock down. For my youngest who will want more freedom earlier, I'm considering a flip phone in 5th grade. Then he could text me when going to friends' houses or other places

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My repeated experience is that kids are always preoccupied with their Apple watch. Super duper distracting and it makes it hard for them to focus on anything, including homework and healthy social interactions.

-- Mom of 7th grader

This depends very much on the child, and I have not noticed this at all with my DD and her friends who only have watches. I have, on the other hand, had to ask her friends to put their phones away. My 7th grader never wears her watch at home, she puts it on the charger as soon as she gets home. It's also locked down and in school time during the day (and yes, of course, she does occasionally text us to tell us how she did on a test), but for the most part she uses it to say "can you please come pick me up" or "I am with Friend X in Location Y".

That said, I wouldn't buy one for an elementary schooler. She got one at the end of the 6th and uses it purely as a tool to communicate with us and a handful of friends. I think she even took herself out of a group chat once because it was annoying.

OMG the fact that you are ok with your kid texting you from school after a test, is half the issue. Can you imagine a classroom full of kids doing that? Or the parents who have low boundaries and are texting the kids to ASK how the kid did on a test? Gah.

THAT'S what you took away from my post? Get a grip!

I'm absolutely fine with my kid texting me between classes to tell me about a test grade. I don't see a problem with that. Said kid has a lot of anxiety and if this helps her manage that anxiety, then I, and her therapist, and her school counselor, are all okay with it. By the way, I didn't say anything about ME texting her. I rarely do. Even if I did text her during the school day, she wouldn't get it, the watch is on school time while she's at school.

If it's locked on school time- how is she texting you?? I will admit, the first time I read your previous comment I missed that she was in middle school, which does make it less disruptive (although still very against the FCPS rules, at least). The advice I've gotten for my anxious kid is very different from what you have gotten, so can't comment there.

Kids are able to take their watches out of school time to send a text or make a call, but it immediately goes back in afterwards. Mine sends me a text from school maybe once a week and it's about something like a test score or a change in after school plans. It's very much about if your child is a rule follower or not. Mine is (see above re: anxiety), so I have no concerns. I am 100% confident she's not doing anything she's not supposed to do and that it is not distracting for her or the people around her. If your child is different, then obviously you should have different boundaries about these things.

And yes, I did see your snarky remark about this being against FCPS rules. Whatever.

NP who is a teacher. Any parent who claims they are 100% positive about anything their kid does when they aren’t with them is delusional.

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Anonymous wrote:I despise them, as I've seen lots of examples of kids constantly distracted by incoming texts. This is outside of school, but I've heard from my kids that the watches are not really locked down.

We did phones in 7th for my older two, which were easy to put in a drawer, not attached to their bodies, and easy to lock down. For my youngest who will want more freedom earlier, I'm considering a flip phone in 5th grade. Then he could text me when going to friends' houses or other places

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My repeated experience is that kids are always preoccupied with their Apple watch. Super duper distracting and it makes it hard for them to focus on anything, including homework and healthy social interactions.

-- Mom of 7th grader

This depends very much on the child, and I have not noticed this at all with my DD and her friends who only have watches. I have, on the other hand, had to ask her friends to put their phones away. My 7th grader never wears her watch at home, she puts it on the charger as soon as she gets home. It's also locked down and in school time during the day (and yes, of course, she does occasionally text us to tell us how she did on a test), but for the most part she uses it to say "can you please come pick me up" or "I am with Friend X in Location Y".

That said, I wouldn't buy one for an elementary schooler. She got one at the end of the 6th and uses it purely as a tool to communicate with us and a handful of friends. I think she even took herself out of a group chat once because it was annoying.

OMG the fact that you are ok with your kid texting you from school after a test, is half the issue. Can you imagine a classroom full of kids doing that? Or the parents who have low boundaries and are texting the kids to ASK how the kid did on a test? Gah.

THAT'S what you took away from my post? Get a grip!

I'm absolutely fine with my kid texting me between classes to tell me about a test grade. I don't see a problem with that. Said kid has a lot of anxiety and if this helps her manage that anxiety, then I, and her therapist, and her school counselor, are all okay with it. By the way, I didn't say anything about ME texting her. I rarely do. Even if I did text her during the school day, she wouldn't get it, the watch is on school time while she's at school.

If it's locked on school time- how is she texting you?? I will admit, the first time I read your previous comment I missed that she was in middle school, which does make it less disruptive (although still very against the FCPS rules, at least). The advice I've gotten for my anxious kid is very different from what you have gotten, so can't comment there.

Kids are able to take their watches out of school time to send a text or make a call, but it immediately goes back in afterwards. Mine sends me a text from school maybe once a week and it's about something like a test score or a change in after school plans. It's very much about if your child is a rule follower or not. Mine is (see above re: anxiety), so I have no concerns. I am 100% confident she's not doing anything she's not supposed to do and that it is not distracting for her or the people around her. If your child is different, then obviously you should have different boundaries about these things.

And yes, I did see your snarky remark about this being against FCPS rules. Whatever.

NP who is a teacher. Any parent who claims they are 100% positive about anything their kid does when they aren’t with them is delusional.

You know what? You're right, I don't know what my kid is doing all day, but I (1) know that she's a rule follower and (2) have screen time on the watch so I can see when she does and does not unlock it and she very rarely unlocks it during the school day. No teachers have taken her watch away and she hasn't gotten in trouble for using it ever, so I am confident that she's not doing what the PP thinks all kids do on their watches all day long. Love you guys who are trying to convince me that my middle schooler is horrible and awful and shouldn't be trusted with her Apple Watch though, thanks for that!

[Anonymous]

DS and all the kids we know got watch in 6th with middle school. Many kids like my DS takes metro to school and the watch is essential if your kid is doing public transportation. DS texts us when he gets to school, etc…

The apple pay is also great so DS doesn’t need cash and texts me to ask to add money when needed if he is low when he goes out with friends,

[Anonymous]

Surprised by the responses here. My kid is finishing fourth grade this year and got theirs at the beginning of the year. Their main group of friends (about 3 other kids) all have watches as well. My kid mainly uses it to ask me if a friend can come over after school while on the school bus. MCPS policy is the watch goes in a backpack during school and that’s fine with me. It’s been much more positive than negative in my opinion — I’m able to see where kid is and they get some much desired autonomy to start to get some independence

[Anonymous]

Get a gabb watch it has limited functionality

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Anonymous wrote:I despise them, as I've seen lots of examples of kids constantly distracted by incoming texts. This is outside of school, but I've heard from my kids that the watches are not really locked down.

We did phones in 7th for my older two, which were easy to put in a drawer, not attached to their bodies, and easy to lock down. For my youngest who will want more freedom earlier, I'm considering a flip phone in 5th grade. Then he could text me when going to friends' houses or other places

+1

My repeated experience is that kids are always preoccupied with their Apple watch. Super duper distracting and it makes it hard for them to focus on anything, including homework and healthy social interactions.

-- Mom of 7th grader

This depends very much on the child, and I have not noticed this at all with my DD and her friends who only have watches. I have, on the other hand, had to ask her friends to put their phones away. My 7th grader never wears her watch at home, she puts it on the charger as soon as she gets home. It's also locked down and in school time during the day (and yes, of course, she does occasionally text us to tell us how she did on a test), but for the most part she uses it to say "can you please come pick me up" or "I am with Friend X in Location Y".

That said, I wouldn't buy one for an elementary schooler. She got one at the end of the 6th and uses it purely as a tool to communicate with us and a handful of friends. I think she even took herself out of a group chat once because it was annoying.

OMG the fact that you are ok with your kid texting you from school after a test, is half the issue. Can you imagine a classroom full of kids doing that? Or the parents who have low boundaries and are texting the kids to ASK how the kid did on a test? Gah.

THAT'S what you took away from my post? Get a grip!

I'm absolutely fine with my kid texting me between classes to tell me about a test grade. I don't see a problem with that. Said kid has a lot of anxiety and if this helps her manage that anxiety, then I, and her therapist, and her school counselor, are all okay with it. By the way, I didn't say anything about ME texting her. I rarely do. Even if I did text her during the school day, she wouldn't get it, the watch is on school time while she's at school.

If it's locked on school time- how is she texting you?? I will admit, the first time I read your previous comment I missed that she was in middle school, which does make it less disruptive (although still very against the FCPS rules, at least). The advice I've gotten for my anxious kid is very different from what you have gotten, so can't comment there.

Kids are able to take their watches out of school time to send a text or make a call, but it immediately goes back in afterwards. Mine sends me a text from school maybe once a week and it's about something like a test score or a change in after school plans. It's very much about if your child is a rule follower or not. Mine is (see above re: anxiety), so I have no concerns. I am 100% confident she's not doing anything she's not supposed to do and that it is not distracting for her or the people around her. If your child is different, then obviously you should have different boundaries about these things.

And yes, I did see your snarky remark about this being against FCPS rules. Whatever.

NP who is a teacher. Any parent who claims they are 100% positive about anything their kid does when they aren’t with them is delusional.

This parent is 100% positive their kid doesn’t break the rules, despite describing the kid breaking the rules. It’s a special kind of delusional.

[Anonymous]

Never. Why?

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Anonymous wrote:Surprised by the responses here. My kid is finishing fourth grade this year and got theirs at the beginning of the year. Their main group of friends (about 3 other kids) all have watches as well. My kid mainly uses it to ask me if a friend can come over after school while on the school bus. MCPS policy is the watch goes in a backpack during school and that’s fine with me. It’s been much more positive than negative in my opinion — I’m able to see where kid is and they get some much desired autonomy to start to get some independence

I absolutely love the independence, so I get that. Right now my 9 year old is exploring outside of our neighborhood on his own without a watch or phone...just like I did when I was his age. We live in a very safe area, so i get that that isn't possible everywhere. It takes some deep breathing for me to be okay with it, but I want to teach my kids the independence that is built by solving problems when they arise. (Yesterday he injured himself just out of our neighborhood, and had to walk home on a twisted ankle. So definitely it hasn't been easy for me to live with this viewpoint, lol).

I personally am very against watches, which I've talked about upthread, so I won't repeat myself. But if it gives parents the confidence to give their kids more freedom, that is definitely an upside!

[Anonymous]

I find this thread interesting too. We had super old Gizmos that barely worked so we ended up getting our 3rd and 5th grade girls Apple watches this year. The novelty wore off after about a month and now I have to remind them to take the watches with them when they are out and about by themselves. They never bring them to school (they aren't allowed). But I make them take the watches when they are biking around the neighborhood by themselves, with other families and may need to get in contact with me, in large venues where they wander off, etc. It is mostly for me so I can get in contact with them. For example - we went to Dave and Busters and they went off and played with friends. I made them take their watches I could meet up with them after an hour or so.

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Anonymous wrote:Surprised by the responses here. My kid is finishing fourth grade this year and got theirs at the beginning of the year. Their main group of friends (about 3 other kids) all have watches as well. My kid mainly uses it to ask me if a friend can come over after school while on the school bus. MCPS policy is the watch goes in a backpack during school and that’s fine with me. It’s been much more positive than negative in my opinion — I’m able to see where kid is and they get some much desired autonomy to start to get some independence

I absolutely love the independence, so I get that. Right now my 9 year old is exploring outside of our neighborhood on his own without a watch or phone...just like I did when I was his age. We live in a very safe area, so i get that that isn't possible everywhere. It takes some deep breathing for me to be okay with it, but I want to teach my kids the independence that is built by solving problems when they arise. (Yesterday he injured himself just out of our neighborhood, and had to walk home on a twisted ankle. So definitely it hasn't been easy for me to live with this viewpoint, lol).

I personally am very against watches, which I've talked about upthread, so I won't repeat myself. But if it gives parents the confidence to give their kids more freedom, that is definitely an upside!

It's not 1975 anymore.

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Anonymous wrote:Surprised by the responses here. My kid is finishing fourth grade this year and got theirs at the beginning of the year. Their main group of friends (about 3 other kids) all have watches as well. My kid mainly uses it to ask me if a friend can come over after school while on the school bus. MCPS policy is the watch goes in a backpack during school and that’s fine with me. It’s been much more positive than negative in my opinion — I’m able to see where kid is and they get some much desired autonomy to start to get some independence

I absolutely love the independence, so I get that. Right now my 9 year old is exploring outside of our neighborhood on his own without a watch or phone...just like I did when I was his age. We live in a very safe area, so i get that that isn't possible everywhere. It takes some deep breathing for me to be okay with it, but I want to teach my kids the independence that is built by solving problems when they arise. (Yesterday he injured himself just out of our neighborhood, and had to walk home on a twisted ankle. So definitely it hasn't been easy for me to live with this viewpoint, lol).

I personally am very against watches, which I've talked about upthread, so I won't repeat myself. But if it gives parents the confidence to give their kids more freedom, that is definitely an upside!

It's not 1975 anymore.

You mean it’s no longer the age of the serial killer? Or do you mean there are bigger cars being driven more aggressively? Or do you mean updated technology exists, so they should use it?

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Anonymous wrote:Surprised by the responses here. My kid is finishing fourth grade this year and got theirs at the beginning of the year. Their main group of friends (about 3 other kids) all have watches as well. My kid mainly uses it to ask me if a friend can come over after school while on the school bus. MCPS policy is the watch goes in a backpack during school and that’s fine with me. It’s been much more positive than negative in my opinion — I’m able to see where kid is and they get some much desired autonomy to start to get some independence

I absolutely love the independence, so I get that. Right now my 9 year old is exploring outside of our neighborhood on his own without a watch or phone...just like I did when I was his age. We live in a very safe area, so i get that that isn't possible everywhere. It takes some deep breathing for me to be okay with it, but I want to teach my kids the independence that is built by solving problems when they arise. (Yesterday he injured himself just out of our neighborhood, and had to walk home on a twisted ankle. So definitely it hasn't been easy for me to live with this viewpoint, lol).

I personally am very against watches, which I've talked about upthread, so I won't repeat myself. But if it gives parents the confidence to give their kids more freedom, that is definitely an upside!

It's not 1975 anymore.

It was actually 1990, which according to the Uniform Crime report, had much more crime than today. (For Fairfax County- where I live and also grew up).

[Anonymous]

It seems Apple is by far the favorite brand but my husband and I have Android phones. Is there anything "good enough" and compatible with android? (And hopefully smaller than the Apple SE 3 watch face which completely swallows my adult wrist and my 10 year old kid's whole arm?)