She sounds great. She might want to really think about a research university vs a SLAC. (I am having this same conversation with my kid.) A top research university has lots of resources and interesting speakers and events, but as a student you are rarely the number one priority of faculty members and it’s somewhat hit or miss if you can establish those relationships. I think this can be especially tough if you’re a quiet girl and not a showboater—at least that was my experience at HYP years ago. At a SLAC students get a lot more individual attention from professors because teaching is their priority. |
Why a niche sport? Football works just fine. Works really well for the rest of the Ivies as well. |
No one has a better than 5% chance at yale or any of these types of schools, unless you are the child of a president or F50 CEO or other titan of business. |
Because thousands of kids will be good at football, and hundreds —or more — of them will also be great students. The numbers change when you’re looking at niche sports. So, yes, being great at football is a plus — if the coaches are interested, but being a national or world class fencer would give you more of an edge — again, if the coaches are interested, because the number of world class fencers who are great students who also apply to Yale with any given cohort is smaller. If the coach needs fencers they’re choosing from a much smaller pool of prospective students. |
While my experience at Yale — also years ago —is different. At least at that time, Yale had lots of seminar classes, plus additional seminars sponsored by the residential colleges, including some seminars and smaller classes listed as open to both graduate and undergraduate students. At least half of my courses probably had fewer than 15 students. Some of those classes included mandatory 1-1 chats with the professors. As a quiet person myself, I got a LOT of individual attention from professors —who encouraged my interests. |
| Reading through the above posts; sounds like you need to be a unicorn - the child of a celebrity, an instagram influencer, whose application needs to be reviewed and polished (but not too polished); a URM, who plays a niche sport, but not a niche sport, and not a URM, child of a CEO, but not a nepo-baby…. All of the above, but ultimately, not being who you really are 🫤 |
| I know 2 siblings who are there. Unhooked, bright but not curing cancer. In their case probably most importantly, they have unusually magnetic personalities and have been difference makers in their HS communities. I assume they filled the personality and charm quota which is much needed at Ivys these days. |
People who are this invested need to go touch grass. |
To add, it’s not just sports. A bassoon player might have an edge over yet another violinist. Yale also has a solid music culture— between the Glee Club, the singing groups, and the drama programs, so a solid interest in these areas might add a slight edge to an application. |
Malia Obama went to Harvard. |
Nope. What you need to be is who you really are — skills, passions, accomplishments, interests and all. But, if your interests and skills are pretty common and easily gained, there won’t really be anything that makes one application stand out from another— beyond personality characteristics. If that’s not who you “really” are — but who you’ve been coached to be, they’re not looking to just add another checked box to your list of accomplishments, for the most part. They’re also looking for at least some students whose lives will be changed by being there — who will then go on to impact other lives and communities. That’s my take and my experience, anyway. |
seriously. the "celeb kids" are affeck and some real housewives dd. now do UVA |
That's why people hire college coaches starting in 9th grade. Develop the pointy narrative. I know 2 kids at Yale that benefitted from this btw. So as for the idea that AOs can suss out "authenticity" - nope. |
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Attending parent events at Yale and among all the parents and students we met, we did not meet any celebrity families.
My kid is pretty interested in one topic, pursued it pretty extensively and to our horror that is all kid wrote about in the essays. In one essay in particular, kid took a particularly boring and utterly inscrutable topic and explained why it is so interesting. We are horrified enough to show it to one knowledgeable person who also was pretty negative about it. Ended up with admits to three of the HYPSM. |
This one goes to Harvard: https://apple.news/AqBBrklcvQtOA4fusri1YNQ So? My guess is tons of people would have no idea who she is or that she’s royalty. |