Middle age married zero sex

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She has cancer. She needs to be on my health insurance, so we can’t get divorced. There is nothing to talk about in therapy. I will just sound like an a$$hole.

What happened to "in sickness and in health"?

I'm sorry. Things must be really tough for you and your wife. But, cheating on her when she is ill is definitely an ahole move. Get a sex doll or something.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Her saying she doesn't want therapy does not equal a gag order against you saying, "I can't go without sex any longer."

You just say those words out loud. That's what you do.

Anything else means that you are willing to rob her of her autonomy. Two wrongs don't make a right.

You want OP to tell their cancer stricken wife that they need sex so they are going to cheat on them? Wow. If the chemo doesn't make them feel like sh*te this surely would.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You should ask them. My spouse and I are in a no sex phase of marriage for several reasons (relationship, life phase, pharma), and I would seriously consider granting a hall pass. I don’t think my partner wants one, but if they asked for one, I’d be very open to the conversation and not mad about it.

That one hall pass will turn into many. FYI

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Use sex workers.

yeah that will always be controversial

[Anonymous]

No need to cheat. Open the marriage

[Anonymous]

Talk to your hands.