Found something

[Anonymous]

I found one of my old bras in my almost 16 year old son's room. He had it hidden in his walk in closet inside a night table. ( he has an old night table he keeps in his closet for odds and end). It's a very old bra of mine. I know I didn't put it there.

Anyway, why?
I am almost scared to ask.

I thought
Maybe he wanted to act cool for his friends...like he got it from a girl.


DH thought maybe he like to wears women's clothing. WTF?

I'm not a troll.
Would you ask him?

[Anonymous]

My guess is to practice undoing the clasp so he doesn't embarrass himself with a girl.

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure what I would do but why were you snooping?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My guess is to practice undoing the clasp so he doesn't embarrass himself with a girl.

Not OP, but that's a good guess. Makes sense. I woulda never thought of this one. Are you a man?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My guess is to practice undoing the clasp so he doesn't embarrass himself with a girl.

Never thought of that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My guess is to practice undoing the clasp so he doesn't embarrass himself with a girl.

+1 but why would your dh think he's cross dressing? There's got to be more to that.

[Anonymous]

This happened on an episode of Modern Family...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm not sure what I would do but why were you snooping?

Good question.

I'm on my major declutter spree since I am having a party on Saturday. He was with me when I was asking what we can get rid of ( he still had teddy bears). As I reached toward the area of the night table, he got very defensive and said something like "don't open that". I knew I needed to check.

So I kept decluttering while he was getting a garbage bag and yes I looked. I thought it was best to. Who knows, I thought it could be drugs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This happened on an episode of Modern Family...

I have never watched. What was the reason?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My guess is to practice undoing the clasp so he doesn't embarrass himself with a girl.

+1 but why would your dh think he's cross dressing? There's got to be more to that.

He couldn't think of any reason a boy would have that.
There are no flags what so ever related to that.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he likes the idea of looking at it while masterbating

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he likes the idea of looking at it while masterbating

OP here, that was the second thing I thought of but didn't know how to express that here without sounding weird.
Could be.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My guess is to practice undoing the clasp so he doesn't embarrass himself with a girl.

Not OP, but that's a good guess. Makes sense. I woulda never thought of this one. Are you a man?

Nope, thoroughly female. Not sure why it popped into my head.

Whatever the reason, I wouldn't ask about it, OP. It's not something that's going to hurt him, so let him have his privacy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My guess is to practice undoing the clasp so he doesn't embarrass himself with a girl.

+1 but why would your dh think he's cross dressing? There's got to be more to that.

Because DH has been reading too much of the Washington Post and/or other so-called progressive, prominent media, and is under the impression that EVERYONE secretly does this -- and is in deep turmoil and angst about going public about it -- because it is being made to seem so normal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he likes the idea of looking at it while masterbating

OP here, that was the second thing I thought of but didn't know how to express that here without sounding weird.
Could be.

I asked my DH what he would think if he found such a scenario. He said the first thing that comes to his mind is that the boy is curious. I said, "but, that's his mom's bra?". He said, "it doesn't matter. It had boobs in them."