Bf hid some of my stuff before his parents came over
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Anonymous
| My bfs parents were about to visit to drop off his new dining table. I am over at his apt now and noticed that he's moved around my stuff so that my makeup and shoes are hidden in his room or in the closet under his sink. They know I exist and that we're serious. I don't get why he'd do this. |
Anonymous
| Because he doesn't want his parents to know you sleep over on a regular basis. They may be very old school. Let it go. |
Anonymous
| ^ agree |
Anonymous
They knew he lived with his college girlfriend. |
Anonymous
| ^^ add me to the lists of PP's who agree |
Anonymous
| How long have you been dating? |
Anonymous
And maybe they gave him grief about it and he doesn't want to deal with that again. They're *his* parents. Let it go. |
Anonymous
| I have an awesome idea -- try being a normal fucking adult and asking your boyfriend what his motivations were, rather than skulking behind his back on a message board! Jesus, you sound like such a fucking child OP. |
Anonymous
OMG. 
NP here. Calm the fuck down, dude. Seriously. |
Anonymous
Whoa, why so hostile? But yes, ask him. It will be enlightening. |
Anonymous
 
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Anonymous
| Yeah, just ask. This isn't a big deal. Unless you think his motivation to hide stuff was unrelated to his parents visit. |
Anonymous
| Ask him, OP. Not in a critical, angry way. Just be open about what you're thinking. It will set a good precedent for healthy communication. |
Anonymous
Because they know his girlfriend?
(sorry, bad joke) |
Anonymous
| Did he hide it or did he clean his house and put your stuff away? Either way this seems like a waste of time and brainspace. |