| If you're spouse or SO isn't the person that you've had the greatest chemistry with, who was? And, what made the chemistry so strong with them? |
| OP, haven't you asked this question a dozen times before? There is a poster who has been asking this question at least twice a month for the past few months.. |
| The chemistry was strong with the other person because we did a lot of growing up with each other (post college). Each other's first serious, I love you relationship added to the electricity. It ended badly and we have had no contact in years, but at some level I believe we will never forget each other. |
Most "frisson" with someone with whom I had a summer fling in my later 20s several years before meeting and marrying husband. It was all physical, though. The guy was otherwise not my type and I knew it. There was no desire to make it more meaningful than it was. No regrets about the fling, nor about its end. Just some nice (hot) memories.
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