In what ways would you be considered trashy?

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Anonymous wrote:Slept with 75+ people

Both trashy and dangerous

[Anonymous]

Went to prison

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Slept with 75+ people

Both trashy and dangerous

I've slept with about 55 and fooled around with probably another 30.
The funny thing is that when I start dating a new person, more often than not he thinks I'm very inexperienced. Several men have assumed I was a virgin, even into my thirties. I've had several stranger one-offs, and they all thought I'd never done anything like that before lol.
I dress conservatively, don't wear makeup, I'm very introverted and bookish, and very quiet. The many men I've been with would be shocked to learn I'm a bit of a ho.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My wife is small and athletic and over-bought on the boobs (her words, not mine). She’s 5’3” so they look big on her frame and obvious. She’s actually got a great sense of humor about it but will not wear a bikini, or even plan on swimming at birthday pool parties, etc.

Sounds like your wife is from Dundalk, MD

Why do beautiful women do this? Breasts need not be huge to look good. The best implants are in proportion to the woman’s frame. Trashy!!!

She got them that big by mistake. She was trying to even out her top and bottom. She’s athletic (ran track in college) and has a big booty and muscular legs. They just came out a bit…big. Honestly, I think she looks hot and like I said, she’s got a great sense of humor about it all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Slept with 75+ people

Both trashy and dangerous

+1

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Anonymous wrote:Serious question; can somebody please explain to me how drinking soda out a can makes you trashy? Are you suppose to drink it out of a champagne glass?

Or going to Costco? You get good deals there. I don't go to Costco personally but would never pass judgement on somebody who does. Or calling somebody trashy for mowing their own lawn. Have people lost their minds from Covid?

Either a lot of people here have demented notions of what it means to be trashy or I'm way out of touch.

That's the way it is in the alternate universe of the DMV.

No one has explained how drinking a soda out of its container is somehow a sign of low class.

It is! Use a glass.

You still haven't given any reason why drinking a soda out of its can is an indicator of low class. Soda cans are typically (and maybe even the majority of time) taken on the go, which is a circumstance where pouring the soda into a glass makes no sense.

I'm sitting at my desk in my office, with a can of soda I picked up from the office fridge. What point would there have been to me searching for a glass to pour the soda into?

Your opinion on this is based on nothing, frankly.

It’s an old etiquette thing. My mother and grandmothers insisted on it.

Think about it. They had china and silver for entertaining guests, so you weren’t going to plunk down a bottle or can with that.

Call it old fashioned, but it’s not really difficult to comprehend.

[Anonymous]

After our mailbox was damaged by a driver, I used duct tape to put it back together (brown duct tape on black mailbox) and left it that way for about two years before replacing it.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a question for people who regard simple practical things, such as using your plastic carrier bags as bin liners or to pick up dog poop or occasionally drinking from a can. Did you grow up poor or working class? I grew up very well off and I find that people who grew up poor seem to need to label a lot of normal things as “trashy” and put a lot of work and money into trying to make every little thing “classy” or perfect. I assume it is to show people that you are not trashy, but the truth is that the insistence on always being “classy” is an obvious tell of insecurity. Also, it is such a pain in the neck to the people around you.

This.

[Anonymous]

I'm overweight
My parents weren't married
I spent a couple semesters at community college
I smoke pot and drink boxed wine
I got a possession charge in college
I can eat a whole bag of Doritos
I eat drive-through at least once a week
I've had to file bankruptcy
I rarely have any savings
I'm divorced
I prefer to pee outside over using a port-a-potty
I'm 43 and wear short shorts in the summer
I let my kid watch YouTube
I let my kid eat food with Red #40
My kid eats donuts every Saturday
I let my kid cuss at home

OTOH, I have a lovely home, great friends, a PhD, a good job, am respected in my field, I do volunteer work in the community. You can't win 'em all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm overweight
My parents weren't married
I spent a couple semesters at community college
I smoke pot and drink boxed wine
I got a possession charge in college
I can eat a whole bag of Doritos
I eat drive-through at least once a week
I've had to file bankruptcy
I rarely have any savings
I'm divorced
I prefer to pee outside over using a port-a-potty
I'm 43 and wear short shorts in the summer
I let my kid watch YouTube
I let my kid eat food with Red #40
My kid eats donuts every Saturday
I let my kid cuss at home

OTOH, I have a lovely home, great friends, a PhD, a good job, am respected in my field, I do volunteer work in the community. You can't win 'em all.

We have so much in common it's almost like looking in a mirror

[Anonymous]

My parents had my 2 siblings and I all take baths at the same time when I was a little kid. Oldest kid was 8-9, youngest kid was 0-1. Mixed gender.

[Anonymous]

I wear slippers in public….every day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My parents had my 2 siblings and I all take baths at the same time when I was a little kid. Oldest kid was 8-9, youngest kid was 0-1. Mixed gender.

I nannied for a few UMC families in London and the families did this too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm overweight
My parents weren't married
I spent a couple semesters at community college
I smoke pot and drink boxed wine
I got a possession charge in college
I can eat a whole bag of Doritos
I eat drive-through at least once a week
I've had to file bankruptcy
I rarely have any savings
I'm divorced
I prefer to pee outside over using a port-a-potty
I'm 43 and wear short shorts in the summer
I let my kid watch YouTube
I let my kid eat food with Red #40
My kid eats donuts every Saturday
I let my kid cuss at home

OTOH, I have a lovely home, great friends, a PhD, a good job, am respected in my field, I do volunteer work in the community. You can't win 'em all.

We have so much in common it's almost like looking in a mirror

Haha, hey sis!

[Anonymous]

1. I like OC (as well as the DE beaches).

2. I think cruises are fun.

3. I still sometimes eat Kraft Mac and cheese.

4. I think Starbucks is gross and prefer DD.

5. I love carbs and think kale is overrated.

6. I’d rather binge garbage tv than read. (I read enough at work.)

7. I love crass comedy.

8. I’d rather vacation in the Caribbean than drag my kids to museums in big cities.

9. I actually enjoy country music. It’s surprisingly upbeat and fun. Some songs are pretty deep.

10. Etc.

FTR, I’m a private school alum Gen X JD with a nice six figure fancy pants job in DC.