Friend

[Anonymous]

I know that this is family relationship forum but I honestly don't know where else to put this ,plus my best friend is like sister to me.
Anyway I have a group of friends and best friend .We are like sisters ,been friends since high school .Now both in our 30s.I am married she is single.
My BFF got involved into sort of "relationship" with bad man.Unavailable,playing with her,manipulating while he has live in girlfriend.
It's been going on for about 2 years.My friend gets upset over him constantly and wasting her best years.I was constantly for her all this time,hanging on phone for hours,replying to texts in the middle if the night and I put so much energy that this man makes me so mad.So I think I started to take this whole store too close to heart.
My friend at the same time started to tell me less,called all out mutual friends and told them not to tell me anything ever because I am too judgmental!I am shocked and hurt and have no idea what to do.

[Anonymous]

Don't talk to her about it - period. She is in crazy mode,keep a bit of distance and let her chips fall where they may. I have had a friend like this - after awhile you just let them suffer the consequences. Keep your mouth shut, she is not ready to see things clearly nor is she open to reason.