Am I being paranoid?

Anonymous
My son is 17 , his best friends mom and and divorced last year. Mom is very very pretty and very fit. I know for a fact that many of the boys refer to her as the "milf" of choice in their school.

So....I think after the divorce she is craving attention. i have noticed her wearing her workout gear everywhere, and just overall flaunting it a bit more. So I heard my S telling his friend that they were all over there, his mom was there and they all were hanging out, etc....and apparently she "hangs out" with them a lot. My son is there a lot. I just think its kind of odd. Am i being overly paranoid?
Anonymous
No to paranoia...perhaps overly concerned...but definitely not something to ignore.
Anonymous
Well, they are barely legal, but if they just wait a few months everyone can go to pound town with out incident.
Anonymous
You're not being paranoid I would limit the amount of time my son spemds there
Anonymous
Hopefully for your son's sake she gives him his 1st hummer. Do not screw this up for him, OP. He will hate you.
Anonymous
Yes, you are being paranoid.
Anonymous
You are being paranoid. Every boy's first experience should be with an older woman.
Anonymous
Not overly paranoid, but what can you really do about it?

Situations like this aren't particularly uncommon. It's really sad that the women become some desperate. They could at least stick to college guys and/or guys their kids don't know.
Anonymous
DH here: why wouldn't you want your DS to rock that.....? The sex will likely be way better than with his peers, she is way less likely to get knocked up, and it will keep him out of biker gangs, etc. I think you are looking at this the wrong way.
Anonymous
I'm sure this woman is not interested in having sex with your son. I also think it's relatively normal to want to boost your confidence as part of the grieving process after a divorce, hence the "dressing sexy" and "flaunting it."
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:DH here: why wouldn't you want your DS to rock that.....? The sex will likely be way better than with his peers, she is way less likely to get knocked up, and it will keep him out of biker gangs, etc. I think you are looking at this the wrong way.


+10000 another dad here. buy your DS condoms and give him a book on how to eat pussy. Hopefully she'll turn him into a rock star and all his future GFs in college and later in life will be eternally grateful to you!
Anonymous
Listen to your gut.

It is trying to tell you something here.

Follow your intuition and do what it tells you to do.
Anonymous
Workout gear? Oh no!! Half the moms at my son's school wear workout gear all the time, I hope someone is keeping an eye on the fifth graders to protect them from those predator moms!
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