25th College Reunion - would you have a fling?

[Anonymous]

I'm a DH. My 25th college reunion is a couple of weeks away. I'm going alone, as my W says she has no interest in spending a weekend hearing old war stories, involving people she doesn't know.

In attendance will be that one girl that got away. We never hooked up in college, but there was always that fun, flirty energy around us, and we've stayed in touch (through Facebook) over the years. She is also married, also coming alone.

If you were her, how receptive would you be to finally having that fling? I feel like it's now or never - who knows if anyone goes back for a 30th reunion, and who knows how attractive either of us will be once we're 50+ in five more years.

[Anonymous]

Are you kidding or a troll?

[Anonymous]

Do you have affairs pereiodically?

[Anonymous]

How would your DW feel about it? How would her DH feel about it?

[Anonymous]

I know someone who did this. Both now divorced and married to each other. Could be a slippery slope. But if that risk is okay with you, then have at it!

[Anonymous]

Did your marriage vows mean nothing?
If you don’t want someone else to know about it, then don’t do it.

[Anonymous]

Don't.
Even if she's receptive. Just leave it alone. Unless you both have hall passes.

I had a cyber fling with the the one that got away. I can say this honestly: it wasnt worth the damage it did to the life I actually had. The only blessing was that I actually managed to keep it not physical, despite many opportunities to change that (at same airport hotel at the same time kind of thing), and my spouse was able to accept that.

The one that got away is not worth losing the one you already have.

[Anonymous]

If I were her I would feel like the biggest loser ever engaging in a quick hookup at my college reunion with some lonely dude I knew 25 years ago. Gross and sad.

[Anonymous]

Too many variables to say.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a DH. My 25th college reunion is a couple of weeks away. I'm going alone, as my W says she has no interest in spending a weekend hearing old war stories, involving people she doesn't know.

In attendance will be that one girl that got away. We never hooked up in college, but there was always that fun, flirty energy around us, and we've stayed in touch (through Facebook) over the years. She is also married, also coming alone.

If you were her, how receptive would you be to finally having that fling? I feel like it's now or never - who knows if anyone goes back for a 30th reunion, and who knows how attractive either of us will be once we're 50+ in five more years.

No response as you are asking us to be her and we know nothing about her.

I did note you didn't ask what you should do. Most likely because you have your mind made up that if possible your pants will fly off.

[Anonymous]

How about you ask your wife and then get back to us?

Get some balls loser!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a DH. My 25th college reunion is a couple of weeks away. I'm going alone, as my W says she has no interest in spending a weekend hearing old war stories, involving people she doesn't know.

In attendance will be that one girl that got away. We never hooked up in college, but there was always that fun, flirty energy around us, and we've stayed in touch (through Facebook) over the years. She is also married, also coming alone.

If you were her, how receptive would you be to finally having that fling? I feel like it's now or never - who knows if anyone goes back for a 30th reunion, and who knows how attractive either of us will be once we're 50+ in five more years.

I am not sure what type of response you were expecting... It is your life. You should look at what you have and what is at risk and make your own decision. There are several girls that I could of and/or should but didn't during college.. Some are very good people but The point in time when you and that person could of and/or should of may have only been durning your college years 25 years ago.

Do not expect that sleeping with her will magically take you back in time....

[Anonymous]

I think you should do it. Never, ever tell your DW.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think you should do it. Never, ever tell your DW.

Agree

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a DH. My 25th college reunion is a couple of weeks away. I'm going alone, as my W says she has no interest in spending a weekend hearing old war stories, involving people she doesn't know.

In attendance will be that one girl that got away. We never hooked up in college, but there was always that fun, flirty energy around us, and we've stayed in touch (through Facebook) over the years. She is also married, also coming alone.

If you were her, how receptive would you be to finally having that fling? I feel like it's now or never - who knows if anyone goes back for a 30th reunion, and who knows how attractive either of us will be once we're 50+ in five more years.

You are a loser.