Did you wait for marriage to have sex?

[Anonymous]

If so, do you ever wonder what it's like to be with another partner sexually?

I'm just curious. I didn't wait for marriage (Not that I had a lot of partners).

[Anonymous]

No.

[Anonymous]

Nope, I think waiting until marriage is a terrible, archaic idea.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nope, I think waiting until marriage is a terrible, archaic idea.

+100
I couldn't agree with you more. Way too risky.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nope, I think waiting until marriage is a terrible, archaic idea.

PP here. I had 12 partners before marriage and I do not regret a single one, even though some were duds. I own my sexuality and enjoyed every bit of it. I actually wish that I had had more partners, ha ha. I am a woman.

[Anonymous]

No

[Anonymous]

No. 95% of Americans are ok with premarital sex, whether they had it or not. I don't think you'll find too many here who say they waited. But I think it's natural for anyone to wonder about different or more partners.

[Anonymous]

Oh gosh, I think a few times I didn't even wait until we were dating...

[Anonymous]

No. I've had sex with two men and one of them is my husband. I would not have married him if we hadn't had sex first. Not even sure I'd have agreed to get engaged.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh gosh, I think a few times I didn't even wait until we were dating...

+1

Including DH

[Anonymous]

DH is my one and only, but it really wasn't a plan. It just worked out that way. He was my first serious boyfriend.

We have a great sex life. 20+ years and going strong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH is my one and only, but it really wasn't a plan. It just worked out that way. He was my first serious boyfriend.

We have a great sex life. 20+ years and going strong.

Oh, and we didn't wait until we were married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nope, I think waiting until marriage is a terrible, archaic idea.

You would be surprised how many people I know that wait for religious reasons.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nope, I think waiting until marriage is a terrible, archaic idea.

You would be surprised how many people I know that wait for religious reasons.

Well, they tell you they are waiting..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nope, I think waiting until marriage is a terrible, archaic idea.

You would be surprised how many people I know that wait for religious reasons.

PP here. Religion is for the most part terrible and archaic, so your response does not change mine.