Last night my DH was ogling at the Kate Upton commercial. She's really attractive but looks nothing like me. She's tall and boobilicious and blonde and I'm petite and brunette. ![]() |
Well, I'm a white, pretty skinny/lanky type and my husband is unabashedly into ogling Beyonce any time she crosses his eye path. Never occurred to me to feel threatened by that. Don't look for trouble where none exists. |
Does he do things to indulge this crush on a daily basis? Does he take weekends away to watch her shows and perv out over her with his friends? Try not to worry too much at this point. |
Oh so it's not a big deal? |
Lol. No. He just likes this particular commercial. He's commented on it before. |
Np here. No, it's not a big deal. I find myself ogling Kate Upton, and I'm a straight female! She has a body that attracts attention. Let it go. |
I don't get it. I have many types of guys I find attractive. I find Shemar Moore incredibly sexy. DH is white and about 20 pounds overweight. Doesn't mean I don't also find him sexy and jump his bones whenever I can.
Seriously, we all are attracted to people who don't look like our spouses. Unless he's making comments to you that he's not attracted to you or that you need to change to look more like her, I would let this go before you make it into something. Hell I find Kate Upton attractive and the only thing we've got in common are big boobs. |
why would it be? |
I'm a straight female and I have a crush on Kate Upton. She's extremely sexy.
Be more confident, OP! This is not a real issue. |
How old are you OP? You seem very young. |
Some people really go deep in these celebrity crushes. Facebook/social media pages devoted to the crush. Blogs. Dirty blogs. Smutty fan fiction.
Be patient and understanding though. You may need to let hubby down easy: Only 40 percent of celebs go on to marry their stalkers. http://www.theonion.com/article/report-only-40-of-celebrities-end-up-marrying-thei-38099 |
Another white girl who's married to a man who loves Beyonce. It's not a big deal, OP. |
I watch superhero movies to ogle Chris hemsworth and Evans (and tell my husband so). He does not look like Thor and I don't think he feels threatened by him. |
Meanwhile, over on the "what's your type" thread the ladies are debating the merits of Idris Elba.
I've watched my wife get all short of breath over him too many times. |
I know this dates me, but my ex used to get a little damp over Billy Dee Williams.
She always said that if he showed up at our door one evening, she was leaving with him. I told her the same went for me and Jamie Lee Curtis. |