Married NY Times sports reporter viral after being busted allegedly having an affair with married NFL coach

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Anonymous wrote:Personally I think they will eventually end up together. They are clearly in love as it has lasted for years.

Zero percent chance they end up together. It wasn’t love, at least not in the way that we typically use that word. As others have noted — she very much plays up her “Italian Jersey Girl” thing and I am sure she is wild and open-minded in the bedroom at least with him because of the forbidden fruit element — but probably not her husband.

He was probably bored in his own marriage coupled with his wife having her own serious health issues that likely killed her libido. So he gets some wild side action.

Neither of them though really wanted to blow up their lives given that they are public personalities and doing so may result in a PR hit. So they had this steamy relationship on the down low and nobody was the wiser … until they got very careless in Arizona.

Now it’s blowing up all over but he is doing all the stuff you do in damage control here — make an apology (sort of), go off to counseling, etc. But there is no chance at all that he is leaving his wife for her, not now.

These kinds of relationships are complicated because there probably were some genuine feelings. But it was mixed in with a lot of crazy, forbidden fruit type sex very likely and the line between actual love and a super charged attraction can become very blurred in that situation.

I was in a similar situation once for a much shorter period of time. I thought it was love, but it most definitely was not, with the benefit of being in a true love relationship now.

The bolded makes this situation different.

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Anonymous wrote:Personally I think they will eventually end up together. They are clearly in love as it has lasted for years.

If he hasn’t his left his wife already he’s not going to now. Unless she dumps him.

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She needs to stop talking. I get that it's banter, but who makes that many jokes about getting divorced?

That was her shtick. She shows up on a lot of podcasts I listen to and she leans heavy into the "Italian Jersey Girl" stuff. She's "fun" and tells it like it is etc. etc.

Now that she’s unemployed she can audition for a spot on RHONJ. She’s trashy enough to fit in.

Hey, it worked for Tiki Barber and his new(ish) wife!

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Anonymous wrote:Personally I think they will eventually end up together. They are clearly in love as it has lasted for years.

If he hasn’t his left his wife already he’s not going to now. Unless she dumps him.

I don't think his kids will ever accept her and maybe not the extended family. He would become a pariah if he ends up with her.

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Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe he gets to keep his job and she doesn’t.

If she worked in his organization he wouldn't. But she doesn't. Her job is very different. I don't see why this is so hard to understand.

Exactly. People need to stop acting like poor her, fired because she's a helpless woman. She's a woman who was having an affair with the subject of her reporting. He wasn't. It's that simple.

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She needs to stop talking. I get that it's banter, but who makes that many jokes about getting divorced?

That was her shtick. She shows up on a lot of podcasts I listen to and she leans heavy into the "Italian Jersey Girl" stuff. She's "fun" and tells it like it is etc. etc.

Lol, she didn't tell it like it is when the pictures of them in AZ first came out.

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so her son's name is Mike , too?

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Anonymous wrote:so her son's name is Mike , too?

At least she didn’t name him Mike Jr.

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This is kinda interesting: https://sports.yahoo.com/articles/patriots-head-coach-mike-vrabel-201236220.html

The hosts asked him if he would be willing to cut off his penis to win another Super Bowl (he had already won three as a player). Without hesitating, Vrabel replied, “Been married 20 years. Yeah, probably.”

“You guys will be married for 20 years one day,” he added. “You won’t need it.”

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Anyone else thinking that Mrs. Vrabel is more pissed that they got publicly busted, which makes her look bad, rather than the cheating itself?

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone else thinking that Mrs. Vrabel is more pissed that they got publicly busted, which makes her look bad, rather than the cheating itself?

She did nothing wrong. It’s just highly embarrassing and mortifying to have your marital problems aired so publicly.

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone else thinking that Mrs. Vrabel is more pissed that they got publicly busted, which makes her look bad, rather than the cheating itself?

I actually think she hired the private detective that took the pics and knew the worst thing she could do to them was go public with the pics. Burn the house down as she leaves.

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone else thinking that Mrs. Vrabel is more pissed that they got publicly busted, which makes her look bad, rather than the cheating itself?

I actually think she hired the private detective that took the pics and knew the worst thing she could do to them was go public with the pics. Burn the house down as she leaves.

I think it was the reporters husband.

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone else thinking that Mrs. Vrabel is more pissed that they got publicly busted, which makes her look bad, rather than the cheating itself?

I actually think she hired the private detective that took the pics and knew the worst thing she could do to them was go public with the pics. Burn the house down as she leaves.

I think it was the reporters husband.

I doubt it. I feel.bad for the guy. He's better looking and probably a lot smarter. And he got used as a baby maker. I don't know how you can ever explain this to kids without it looking like the mom never loved their dad. There's just too much video of her badmouthing her husband. It's gross. I also think Mike Vrabel talked too much smack as well.

I don't see how counseling fixes this kind of inherent selfishness for Mike Vrabel.

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone else thinking that Mrs. Vrabel is more pissed that they got publicly busted, which makes her look bad, rather than the cheating itself?

I actually think she hired the private detective that took the pics and knew the worst thing she could do to them was go public with the pics. Burn the house down as she leaves.

I think it was the reporters husband.

I doubt it. I feel.bad for the guy. He's better looking and probably a lot smarter. And he got used as a baby maker. I don't know how you can ever explain this to kids without it looking like the mom never loved their dad. There's just too much video of her badmouthing her husband. It's gross. I also think Mike Vrabel talked too much smack as well.

I don't see how counseling fixes this kind of inherent selfishness for Mike Vrabel.

It may be up for debate as to whether he is the baby maker.

I think the reason this story has grown legs is because it’s just so diabolical on both sides. What on earth were they thinking?

I really hope that Vrabel’s wife, if she chooses to stay, forces a post-nup- 75% of all assets if he cheats again and 90% if it’s with her. But honestly who would stay? She’s already entitled for half, that would make for a decent nest egg and she wouldn’t have to continue to be publicly humiliated.