Does this Taylor Swift fling with the NFL football brute seem super fake?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have Jets season tickets. I sold one pair for $1,750. Earlier this week. Thanks Taylor

I am thrilled for you.

I am so sad for the person who is buying Jets tickets so they can sit in the same stadium as Taylor Swift, who will spend the game in a corporate suite and not out with the hoi poloi.

Do people realize that there are celebrities at a huge number of NFL games every single week. Celebs also like football, and can get tickets easily. I've been to NFL games that super famous people also attended -- never ran into one. I have rubbed elbows with famous people at baseball games though -- it's more fun to watch a baseball game from down closer to the field than in a corporate box, so I think famous and rich people are more likely to do that.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I really like her music, yet on a personal level find her extremely annoying. She’s like 33 and behaves like a 15 year old girl.

Thank you !!!!!!! Someone finally said it. It's hard to believe she's six years away from turning 40 because of her intense arrested development syndrome .

+1. How often do you talk to 30-39 year old millennials? No matter how many degrees they have or how serious their jobs are, most act like children, especially if they don't have children.

I am a 30-39 year old millennial and find Taylor extremely immature and cringey. I don’t know anyone in my circles that acts like they’re still in high school— not to the extent that Taylor does. I am not at all jealous or envious of her, I value my privacy more than an extra zero or two in my net worth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think all y’all are just jealous of tay. She’s a billionaire and banging some hot guy who can’t seem to get enough of her. She’s probably going to have his babies who are going to be the cutest things and she’ll still be a worldwide star.

Alternatively, some of us find Taylor's taste in men extremely questionable and it feels like a real waste of an opportunity. I have zero interesting in Travis Kelce, who I don't find that attractive and whose interest in Taylor looks like a parasocial obsession (falling for someone based on their public persona is weird) and a little opportunistic (he definitely wants a career in entertainment post-football and this is a very good way to help make that happen).

Most of her exes are also pretty terrible. Joe Jonas? John Mayer? Gyllenhall? Matt Healy? I would not date any of these guys and I'm not remotely surprised any of those relationships ended poorly. She dates TERRIBLE men and then writes breakup songs about what jerks they were and around the time she hit 30 I was like "Taylor, fix your picker."

Though I also think this relationship is maybe fake, so.

Anyway, not jealous, I think she squanders her youth and her wealth and her looks on dudes who are not worth her time and am beginning to think that as other posters have said, she is just very immature and doesn't really understand what healthy relationships are supposed to look like.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think all y’all are just jealous of tay. She’s a billionaire and banging some hot guy who can’t seem to get enough of her. She’s probably going to have his babies who are going to be the cutest things and she’ll still be a worldwide star.

Alternatively, some of us find Taylor's taste in men extremely questionable and it feels like a real waste of an opportunity. I have zero interesting in Travis Kelce, who I don't find that attractive and whose interest in Taylor looks like a parasocial obsession (falling for someone based on their public persona is weird) and a little opportunistic (he definitely wants a career in entertainment post-football and this is a very good way to help make that happen).

Most of her exes are also pretty terrible. Joe Jonas? John Mayer? Gyllenhall? Matt Healy? I would not date any of these guys and I'm not remotely surprised any of those relationships ended poorly. She dates TERRIBLE men and then writes breakup songs about what jerks they were and around the time she hit 30 I was like "Taylor, fix your picker."

Though I also think this relationship is maybe fake, so.

Anyway, not jealous, I think she squanders her youth and her wealth and her looks on dudes who are not worth her time and am beginning to think that as other posters have said, she is just very immature and doesn't really understand what healthy relationships are supposed to look like.

Congratulations on being an expert man picker.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think all y’all are just jealous of tay. She’s a billionaire and banging some hot guy who can’t seem to get enough of her. She’s probably going to have his babies who are going to be the cutest things and she’ll still be a worldwide star.

Alternatively, some of us find Taylor's taste in men extremely questionable and it feels like a real waste of an opportunity. I have zero interesting in Travis Kelce, who I don't find that attractive and whose interest in Taylor looks like a parasocial obsession (falling for someone based on their public persona is weird) and a little opportunistic (he definitely wants a career in entertainment post-football and this is a very good way to help make that happen).

Most of her exes are also pretty terrible. Joe Jonas? John Mayer? Gyllenhall? Matt Healy? I would not date any of these guys and I'm not remotely surprised any of those relationships ended poorly. She dates TERRIBLE men and then writes breakup songs about what jerks they were and around the time she hit 30 I was like "Taylor, fix your picker."

Though I also think this relationship is maybe fake, so.

Anyway, not jealous, I think she squanders her youth and her wealth and her looks on dudes who are not worth her time and am beginning to think that as other posters have said, she is just very immature and doesn't really understand what healthy relationships are supposed to look like.

She dated John Mayer, Joe Jonas, and Jake Gyllenhaal all before she was 22 years old. Who are you dating when you were that age? Her latest relationship lasted for six years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think all y’all are just jealous of tay. She’s a billionaire and banging some hot guy who can’t seem to get enough of her. She’s probably going to have his babies who are going to be the cutest things and she’ll still be a worldwide star.

This sounds like something straight out of the hallways of a high school.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm loving this. I think he's hilarious, unabashedly a Swiftie, and as he said, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Hey, he took a shot and got a good result! I don't think he's stupid or a brute. He comes off as rather charming, as does his brother. They seem like a good family. She could do worse, and has. I saw a tweet that said it's like he's the first person who is dating Taylor Swift who realizes she's Taylor Swift. It just seems sweet to me.

So, have we talked about OP's misandry in labelling Kelce a "brute"?

OP is an idiot who doesn’t know anything about football.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think all y’all are just jealous of tay. She’s a billionaire and banging some hot guy who can’t seem to get enough of her. She’s probably going to have his babies who are going to be the cutest things and she’ll still be a worldwide star.

Alternatively, some of us find Taylor's taste in men extremely questionable and it feels like a real waste of an opportunity. I have zero interesting in Travis Kelce, who I don't find that attractive and whose interest in Taylor looks like a parasocial obsession (falling for someone based on their public persona is weird) and a little opportunistic (he definitely wants a career in entertainment post-football and this is a very good way to help make that happen).

Most of her exes are also pretty terrible. Joe Jonas? John Mayer? Gyllenhall? Matt Healy? I would not date any of these guys and I'm not remotely surprised any of those relationships ended poorly. She dates TERRIBLE men and then writes breakup songs about what jerks they were and around the time she hit 30 I was like "Taylor, fix your picker."

Though I also think this relationship is maybe fake, so.

Anyway, not jealous, I think she squanders her youth and her wealth and her looks on dudes who are not worth her time and am beginning to think that as other posters have said, she is just very immature and doesn't really understand what healthy relationships are supposed to look like.

She dated John Mayer, Joe Jonas, and Jake Gyllenhaal all before she was 22 years old. Who are you dating when you were that age? Her latest relationship lasted for six years.

Not anyone as old as Mayer and Gyllenhall were then. Ew.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think all y’all are just jealous of tay. She’s a billionaire and banging some hot guy who can’t seem to get enough of her. She’s probably going to have his babies who are going to be the cutest things and she’ll still be a worldwide star.

Alternatively, some of us find Taylor's taste in men extremely questionable and it feels like a real waste of an opportunity. I have zero interesting in Travis Kelce, who I don't find that attractive and whose interest in Taylor looks like a parasocial obsession (falling for someone based on their public persona is weird) and a little opportunistic (he definitely wants a career in entertainment post-football and this is a very good way to help make that happen).

Most of her exes are also pretty terrible. Joe Jonas? John Mayer? Gyllenhall? Matt Healy? I would not date any of these guys and I'm not remotely surprised any of those relationships ended poorly. She dates TERRIBLE men and then writes breakup songs about what jerks they were and around the time she hit 30 I was like "Taylor, fix your picker."

Though I also think this relationship is maybe fake, so.

Anyway, not jealous, I think she squanders her youth and her wealth and her looks on dudes who are not worth her time and am beginning to think that as other posters have said, she is just very immature and doesn't really understand what healthy relationships are supposed to look like.

Dating terrible celebrity men then writing songs about them has made her a billionaire. That’s not happenstance and this is more of the same. Homegirl knows exactly what she’s doing. It will be interesting to see how much longer it works for her as she approaches her mid-30s; at some point it starts feeling a little pathetic.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think all y’all are just jealous of tay. She’s a billionaire and banging some hot guy who can’t seem to get enough of her. She’s probably going to have his babies who are going to be the cutest things and she’ll still be a worldwide star.

Alternatively, some of us find Taylor's taste in men extremely questionable and it feels like a real waste of an opportunity. I have zero interesting in Travis Kelce, who I don't find that attractive and whose interest in Taylor looks like a parasocial obsession (falling for someone based on their public persona is weird) and a little opportunistic (he definitely wants a career in entertainment post-football and this is a very good way to help make that happen).

Most of her exes are also pretty terrible. Joe Jonas? John Mayer? Gyllenhall? Matt Healy? I would not date any of these guys and I'm not remotely surprised any of those relationships ended poorly. She dates TERRIBLE men and then writes breakup songs about what jerks they were and around the time she hit 30 I was like "Taylor, fix your picker."

Though I also think this relationship is maybe fake, so.

Anyway, not jealous, I think she squanders her youth and her wealth and her looks on dudes who are not worth her time and am beginning to think that as other posters have said, she is just very immature and doesn't really understand what healthy relationships are supposed to look like.

She dated John Mayer, Joe Jonas, and Jake Gyllenhaal all before she was 22 years old. Who are you dating when you were that age? Her latest relationship lasted for six years.

Who has six year relationship in their 30 without a ring? Someone that doesn’t want one. People need to stop trying to marry her off or give her babies (a la Aniston). Not everyone wants kids and it’s fine.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think all y’all are just jealous of tay. She’s a billionaire and banging some hot guy who can’t seem to get enough of her. She’s probably going to have his babies who are going to be the cutest things and she’ll still be a worldwide star.

Alternatively, some of us find Taylor's taste in men extremely questionable and it feels like a real waste of an opportunity. I have zero interesting in Travis Kelce, who I don't find that attractive and whose interest in Taylor looks like a parasocial obsession (falling for someone based on their public persona is weird) and a little opportunistic (he definitely wants a career in entertainment post-football and this is a very good way to help make that happen).

Most of her exes are also pretty terrible. Joe Jonas? John Mayer? Gyllenhall? Matt Healy? I would not date any of these guys and I'm not remotely surprised any of those relationships ended poorly. She dates TERRIBLE men and then writes breakup songs about what jerks they were and around the time she hit 30 I was like "Taylor, fix your picker."

Though I also think this relationship is maybe fake, so.

Anyway, not jealous, I think she squanders her youth and her wealth and her looks on dudes who are not worth her time and am beginning to think that as other posters have said, she is just very immature and doesn't really understand what healthy relationships are supposed to look like.

She dated John Mayer, Joe Jonas, and Jake Gyllenhaal all before she was 22 years old. Who are you dating when you were that age? Her latest relationship lasted for six years.

Not anyone as old as Mayer and Gyllenhall were then. Ew.

Tom Hiddleston

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think all y’all are just jealous of tay. She’s a billionaire and banging some hot guy who can’t seem to get enough of her. She’s probably going to have his babies who are going to be the cutest things and she’ll still be a worldwide star.

Alternatively, some of us find Taylor's taste in men extremely questionable and it feels like a real waste of an opportunity. I have zero interesting in Travis Kelce, who I don't find that attractive and whose interest in Taylor looks like a parasocial obsession (falling for someone based on their public persona is weird) and a little opportunistic (he definitely wants a career in entertainment post-football and this is a very good way to help make that happen).

Most of her exes are also pretty terrible. Joe Jonas? John Mayer? Gyllenhall? Matt Healy? I would not date any of these guys and I'm not remotely surprised any of those relationships ended poorly. She dates TERRIBLE men and then writes breakup songs about what jerks they were and around the time she hit 30 I was like "Taylor, fix your picker."

Though I also think this relationship is maybe fake, so.

Anyway, not jealous, I think she squanders her youth and her wealth and her looks on dudes who are not worth her time and am beginning to think that as other posters have said, she is just very immature and doesn't really understand what healthy relationships are supposed to look like.

She dated John Mayer, Joe Jonas, and Jake Gyllenhaal all before she was 22 years old. Who are you dating when you were that age? Her latest relationship lasted for six years.

Not anyone as old as Mayer and Gyllenhall were then. Ew.

Exactly. She has horrible judgement. Her last relationship lasted 6 years? And then they broke up and she immediately rebounded with a sketchy "bad boy" and is now having the least discrete fling ever with a guy who is definitely using her to boost his profile.

Those of you who think this is all somehow enviable are either blinded by your fandom or also have terrible judgement.

I don't care if she gets married or has kids. I just think she has awful taste in men and her relationships look dysfunctional and unhealthy. It's not aspirational or jealousy inducing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I really like her music, yet on a personal level find her extremely annoying. She’s like 33 and behaves like a 15 year old girl.

Thank you !!!!!!! Someone finally said it. It's hard to believe she's six years away from turning 40 because of her intense arrested development syndrome .

+1. How often do you talk to 30-39 year old millennials? No matter how many degrees they have or how serious their jobs are, most act like children, especially if they don't have children.

I'm only 43 so I'm not going to insult ALL 30-39 yr old millennials, but I agree with the PPs that I find her whole persona weird for someone who is getting their mid-30s.

Also, I've known people IRL who have this kind of vibe in their 20s and early 30s (they've got a squad, obsess over relationships, are just trying to have fun, are addicted to social media, etc.) and if they DO have kids, they become annoying about that too. They obsessively document their kids' lives, use the term "littles" liberally, behave as thought they are the first people to have a child. Some of these people are my age or older, so it's not a millennial thing. Some people are just extremely self-involved and image-conscious, and having children augments these things, instead of dissipating them. Especially if they have resources, which obviously Taylor does.

If she ever has a baby, she's gonna be REAL annoying about it.

You’ve truly lost the plot. To compare Taylor Swift, who is on track to become a billionaire in part from performing originals shows that go on 3 to 4 hours where she’s on the entire time singing songs that she wrote… With some 33-year-old stay at home mom who depends on her husband’s salary to pay for her Instagram followers so she can pretend to be relevant for 5 minutes… Yeah, sorry not tracking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think all y’all are just jealous of tay. She’s a billionaire and banging some hot guy who can’t seem to get enough of her. She’s probably going to have his babies who are going to be the cutest things and she’ll still be a worldwide star.

I'd date him just to have his mom as my MIL.

[Anonymous]

I mean I think she’d be the first to admit she has bad taste in men and makes a lot of terrible choices. See: “Anti-hero”

The new guy seems fine though. They’re both having fun.