Is $2.5 million enough? Maybe the promise of more later? It just doesn't seem like that much. Not that I'm a fan or anything, I'm just surprised by that small amount. |
| Singer is a gaslighting sociopath and a master manipulator. He created a market for his business by telling parents their kids weren't good enough. They were egotistical and rich enough to fall for it. I feel like John Vandemoer got shafted by Stanford and its Athletic Department. You know they definitely knew what was going on. Also, the USC coaches and Assistant Athletic Director pleading Not Guilty? It seems so foolish. I wonder how much more time they'll serve than if they'd pled Guilty. |
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Wealthy families have advantages on almost everything. That's part of the capitalism we buy into. Wealthy people leave wealth to their offspring, and the children inherit the advantage. Unless you like Marx's communism theory to confisticate private properties and have class wars like Solvets had, this inequality will always exist in society.
Probably if you still can see some of the ordinary background people you know around have made to the class of wealthy, then the society is still ok, and the upward mobility still exists if you work hard enough. |
Worked out well for Elizabeth Warren |
LOL, I like you. |
This part is true and we all know it. All the kids in hs feel like they have to do a sport for their resumes. If colleges weren't so hard to get into it would be like my days in hs in the 70s where people didn't care about the sports. |
Are you stupid? Stop, rhetorical question, for what it's worth mouth breather, many kids "do a sport" because they like it and it teaches many things like hard work, discipline and humility. |
First, people did care about sports in the 70s. Second, if your kid is doing a sport she hates because you told her she needs to for college, you are parenting wrong. |
That’s not true. Back when I was in school you only needed to show 12% Native American blood to get a full ride to any state school (western state). A bunch of us could do that. Plus, those with any black blood in them can claim black. |
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I watched it this afternoon and enjoyed it. These parents were the biggest chumps. The conversations, I died.
The documentary took the stance that social media in large part has pushed us to this point. I disagree. Elite universities have always been high desirable. Through the early 90s, if you were a legacy and went to an elite private you were in. Top schools have fundamentally changed how they build a freshman class. They still want the children of elites, and now they want the children of 1st generation college students (preferable POC, but they'll take who they can get) so the elites can appear woke. |
You are full of it. Most kids do it now because they have to. |
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I thought the doc was well done, and uncovered a lot of issues - mainly "pay to play", of course.
I think these kinds of parents deserve to be outed. In my close in NoVA community, some of my friends have had their kid admitted through what Rick Singer called the "side door". Everyone knows who these parents are, and feels bad for the kids - the parents clearly did not think the kids were good enough, in any regard, and had to pay to get them into a college they never would have been admitted to, if not for the payment/donation and/or sucking up to the coach. The parent who does this has no idea how obvious it is. Kids talk, even if you tell them not to - and other kids absolutely know who is a good student, and who is not - who is in what classes, and who is not. There is simply no getting around that. Of course the kid finds out. |
+1 The parents who bribe the coaches/schools (but refuse to call it that) are, too. |
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The thing I found fascinating was that my guess is most of these kids could probably have gotten into reasonably good schools on their own merits - they had all the advantages to begin with and could pay full freight at lots of small privates, but certain schools were considered appropriately chi chi - bit even the top top schools in some cases, but USC, Georgetown.
It left me with a bad taste in my mouth for a lot of the schools and their big time athletics programs. |