Your kids both did extremely well. But, I'll never get families like you who make a house and other things a priority over college/loans for college and graduate school when you royally can afford more especially given how well your kids did. |
DP but there are several answers to this 1. MYOB, obviously. 2. Different people have different priorities and 3. Sometimes the smart folks with all the money know how not spending it is key to staying rich. |
NP The PP saved for college in 529 and seems financially responsible. I think you should work on your reading comprehension. |
NP. To each their own. My DD with stats good enough for ivies and the likes is smart/down to earth enough to understand that an undergrad education is not worth 300K (from either loans or parents savings). She has only applied to schools with good merit aid and would rather save our money for grad school, down payment on a house, etc |
How do you know we made our house and other things a priority? We live in a modest house in a W district and it’s 100% paid for. HHI upper 300,000. We are very conservative in our spending but will splurge on vacations, theater, sports, charity, and other things important to our family. We teach our kids the value of money, investing, and hard work. They already have Roth IRAs and have worked since age 14. DS is an entrepreneur from age 16. They had other options for college but chose in-state on their own. Just because we can afford something doesn’t mean it is a good investment for us. DD is graduating this year and has a good job lined up already. |
Not PP, but what are you talking about? You know nothing about PP other than her kids' stats. Nothing whatsoever. |
DP. I get this, 100%. But you didn't need to rise to that poster's bait and explain yourself. They were clearly baiting you and you fell for it. Sometimes just ignoring the assholes is the way to get past it. |