Age 38 induced at 39 weeks - with GW. Baby was 9 pounds- he was measuring smaller so everyone was surprised. Easy vaginal delivery with epidural, no tearing, and thriving 6 year old. |
I know people who got induced 3 times (one of them was even before 39 weeks) and didn't end up with a single c section. Random examples is not the way to make serious medical decisions. It's giving off "I got the vaccine and still got COVID so the vaccine doesn't work" logic. |
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It's so fascinating to me that pregnancy and child birth are pretty much the only medical situations people so eagerly discount medical experts under the view of "my body, my choice."
No one tries to tell a heart surgeon when to do a procedure. |
Do you do as much research as someone who is a licensed OB? A few weeks on Google vs. med school and residency? |
Not quite to assist me. I "hired" my OB to give me the best medical advice to ensure the best outcome for me and my baby. |
SOME women are fine going over 39 weeks because, like you said, every person is different and you are being childish. |
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https://www.lamaze.org/Connecting-the-Dots/parsing-the-arrive-trial-should-first-time-parents-be-routinely-induced-at-39-weeks
I think a dr could discuss the option, but not dictate it as a policy. A dr who doesn’t listen to his patient is not a good dr |
It’s interesting you see it this way because it also seems to me that pregnancy and birth are the only medical situations where people try to scare and bully patients with such regularity. I have never met an orthopedic surgeon who, if a patient says they want to try physical therapy/cortisone shots for a knee injury before surgery, starts threatening them with losing their leg. Meanwhile as soon as you don’t agree with your OBs suggestion of an intervention— even if what you’re seeking is well within the standard practice— it’s accusations of selfishness and typically bad parenting, at least from the online crowd but often from (bad) OB practices. My theory is that the orthopedist has to live with the outcome more. They get to see the patient whose surgery failed, experience their pain, hear about the loss of mobility/detriment to quality of life. An OB never sees the underweight baby after delivery, and then gets to write whatever intervention off as the mother’s choice. |
Is your theory that the doctors who don’t push the 39 week induction somehow did worse med school/residency? Or that perhaps they see more value in waiting to 40 weeks in their medical experience outside one study? |
I continue to not get this “push” thing. Don’t they still have to recommend it? Make you aware of the recommendation, ethically? I didn’t feel pushed. I think the doctor said something like “because of your age and your GD, we recommend you have an induction at 39 weeks. It’s because of studies showing better outcomes.” I don’t see how that’s “pushing.” |
You don't find it anything you are not a doctor, follow directions or birth yourself in the woods or next to the dumpster |
I’m not sure this is true. I’m specifically thinking of cancer, but you’re right there’s something there and I think it’s because the patient isn’t passive, right? Like we have to do a lot of the task at hand. Which makes it unlike other procedures. And when that’s not an option, it looks more like traditional medicine. Like no one has a doula doing their emergency c-section and honoring their wishes for incision technique. |
Why did your dr mention your age? Arrive study was on low risk first time mothers who were induced during the week of 39 to 39 and 5 days The data it collected is not enough to really be convincing |
My doctor only mentioned the arrive study when we were discussing the need for me to avoid a c-section (in her medical judgement, due to a family history of problems with anesthesia.) and she said she did not, personally, think the benefits in my case would outweigh the risk of a NICU stay for an unexpectedly small baby. Better outcomes for low risk first time mothers do not translate across to every single patient. So if my OB recommended an early induction it would be against her medical judgement. |
lol that’s some red state medical desert lunacy. In DC there is a doctor who will treat your views as valuable and important because OBs are plentiful here. |