Anyone fall in love and get married after 30?

[Anonymous]

me 37, DH 40

[Anonymous]

I’ll be 36 when I get married in January! To the best person I know or have ever met!

We met when I was 33 and he was 36

[Anonymous]

I knew my DH before 30, but it was more of a once in a while acquaintance. We started dating after I turned 30. I got married just after I turned 32.

[Anonymous]

No, because by then, you're in a nursing home.

[Anonymous]

two years after my divorce I met my DH - I was 39 and DH was 43 (also had been divorced for two years). We definitely had a whirlwind romance - the attraction was instant and the chemistry intense - and yes the sex was and still is fantastic. It all remains that way even today as we recently celebrated 20 years together.

We both had young kids from our previous marriages and worked hard over time to blend all of us into a modern day family.

[Anonymous]

You are not old at all.

Well educated people tend to get married at later ages, in case you were not aware of that.

I know a couple who met and married at the age of 50 (first marriage for her). They are a great couple.

[Anonymous]

Does it matter if it's 1st or 2nd? I married my second husband at 49. We both had kids. It's been wonderful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I honestly have no idea why getting married in the 20s is still idealized with all we know now, from divorce rates to prefrontal cortex development to social shifts etc. 30s are a definitely the better time for marriage.

Biological clocks. No pressure or judgment for those who don’t get married then, but it’s not like there isn’t a good reason, provided you’re mature enough and with a good partner.

[Anonymous]

I met my husband to be when I was 44 and he was 54. We both had children. We decided not to add any more.

[Anonymous]

Me and all my friends in DC, Its not that old but you need to get serious OP and dont waste anytime. In your 30s, no more dating pointlessly, no random FWB or hooking up. That will never turn serious. Its a numbers game, so go on lots of dates! After 3 months of dating, you should know exactly where you stand. Men dont play games when they are into you and serious. Do NOT move in with any man unless you are engaged and there is wedding planning going on. Handsdown, that is how women waste more time. I met DH at 35, married at 37, baby at 39. There was no convincing or negotating. We both were ready for a serious relationship, into each other, no games

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was widowed at 29 and fell in love again at 31.

Truly happy to read this, that you found love again and fairly soon.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes. I married at 34, my husband was 35. Most of the couples I know met in their 30s. Most people I know didn't buy a home until their mid- to late-30s. Most people I know had their kids in their late 30s and early 40s.

These are very common things. You are ok. Have hope.

[Anonymous]

54

[Anonymous]

Yep. When we met, I was 34. She was 25. Dated less than 2 years. Been married for 9 years now. No kids. And not planning on them.

[Anonymous]

Better to start your first marriage after age 30 than your second.

OP how many people do you know who married in their 20’s and divorced? Marrying later isn’t necessarily “sad.” It can have positive effects.