| I've taught in a Title One school and a school in a very wealthy area. The wealthy kids had worse behavior, hands down. They were sassy, rude and ignored many staff members. Many of them flat out refused to clean up messes they made. Some of them were very entitled and once you met their parents, it all made sense. My "poor" kids have much better behavior. They enter school much further behind but they know how to behave. |
22:05 here (the second part of what you quoted above). The school is under 10% free/reduced lunch. I'm curious to know what the % is at the PP's school. |
I wish I could speak with you more in depth. I've heard the same that you say and I've thought about making a switch. |
Because mommy needs 24/7 access to her kid {you can't believe how many parents text their kid during the school day} and schools don't want to be responsible if something happens to Larlo's new iPhoneX. |
| Public schools have always been a microcosm of American society.....which, IMHO, is in decline. Don't blame the schools. |
All of the SB positions are up for vote this November. Please consider running. Could someone without a specific agenda item or fringe beliefs that have nothing to do with educating our children please step up? |
I would seriously consider it, but I’m a teacher. |
| Most if not all of the problems cited on this thread (by educators) apply to most public school systems. To imply its only a problem in FCPS is foolish. |
I kind of agree. To much focus on worksheets and test scores. Not enough creative thinking and teaching. I don't necessarily fault the teachers as the classes are big and they don't have a lot of time int he day. Although, there are some teachers at my FCPS ES who are super creative and def put in the time to make lessons fun and memorable. So at the same time, I think if they can do it, why can't they all? Unfortunately, save one rockstar teacher my DC had, they all used worksheets. Worksheets. More worksheets. I also really fault the school for not teaching things like computer programs (Word, etc.) as a basic requirement, for not teaching keyboarding at all, not teaching note-taking and outlining, etc. Skills needed for higher grades and college. I think this is a serious disservice to the kids. I'm trying to fill that gap, for sure. But, when they already have HW and other activities, they also need some down time. Finally, the lack of properly allocating funds so that kids don't have to go to school at 7 a.m. really pisses me off. These kids-esp. tweens and teens- should not be at school that early. No one will convince me otherwise on this. This is all my experience at our schools. Others may be different. |
Therefore nothing should change in FCPS? |
DP, no, but to say it's a problem *with FCPS* is not understanding the issue. Education has changed (in some ways for the better, in other ways not) and demographics have changed. And somehow, behavior has changed as well. As an UMC parent, I see it but don't understand it. There's that one infamous pschologist who thinks it's caused by the lack of spanking. I don't agree with that, but there's definitely something. |
It's in the same vein... lack of discipline. It's all the "everyone gets a trophy for trying" mentality, too. Too many parents trying to be friends with their kids, or too tired to really discipline. I get it.. it's a lot of work and requires tons of patience, which I don't have much of, either. When you see teens talking back to their parents or other adults, some parents see it as "oh, they are just expressing themselves" rather than disciplining their kids. There's a difference between rudely talking back and expressing your views. Then there are those parents who use their kids' "SN" as an excuse for poor behavior. |
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It's a "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situation.
Example: the little girl who died as a result of a fight with another schoolgirl in SC. The teachers had been told not to physically break up fights, because they might hurt a child. All the videos of teachers trying to restrain children condemn the teacher. We never get the backstory. Example: the teacher dragging a kid down a hall--we are never told why. We just condemn the teacher--which may be justified, or there may be another reason. Having been there, a kid might be flailing around and kicking other kids--but, on the news, it is always the teachers' fault. I'm not saying there are not egregious situations, but some of the stories I am hearing from a friend who teaches are pretty bad. |
This is it. The school board puts education well down on the priority list behind the social cause celeb of the day. Just go to a school board meeting and see what they talk about. |
Exactly. This IS a problem with FCPS. |