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I went into motherhood thinking I’d hate 0-4. Pleasantly surprised that 0-3 hasn’t been as bad as I was anticipating. And DS is just so damn cute.
But he just turned 3. I’m not enjoying it. The crying over everything little thing. Being bossy. I just want to scream “STFU, im the boss and you WILL brush your teeth” |
Me too. My oldest is about to turn 4 and it’s awesome. I can communicate and somewhat reason with him. He’s funny, fully potty trained, sleeps through the night, likes to be my helper (pick up toys, play with baby brother, etc.). I feel like I’m really enjoying parenting now instead of just keeping him alive and dealing with tantrums. Least favorite is the newborn stage. The physical recovery from child birth + lack of sleep + constant nursing is really rough for me. Second hardest is 12-18 months. Like a PP said, it’s mobility without rationality. The beginning of age 3 was tough too, but it was more like short periods of things being tough (like a really big tantrum that would last 20-30 min. instead of the constantness of things being tough with a baby/young toddler. Basically I think it keeps getting better, which is why we’re considering a third. I wish I could skip those first 6 months though! |
Same. 13 year old boy and he has always been an easy going good kid. Hope he stays that way lol! |
Same here. I'll take toddler tantrums, thanks. |
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| Newborn period, but really ages 0-2.75 weren't super enjoyable. Close to 3, it started getting a lot better, and has every year since for several years counting. |
My DD is 10 and it’s sooooo great. Maybe so we top up our love tanks before the teen years hit.
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I love babies & toddlers—have spent most of my career working with them.
DS is 2.75 and there have been a few annoying phases. 2-8 weeks, just so freaking exhausted + bored 10 mos., sleep regression, early walker 1-1.5., mobile + no fear 2.5, emergence of negotiation tactics |
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Newborn stage is constant anxiety combined with lack of sleep
After 6momths I’ve enjoyed everything though I haven’t made it past 7 years to know what’s coming. Even seeing babies now gives me a visceral reaction of anxiety. Ugh, no way I want anything to do with babies ever again. |
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I keep thinking to myself, "this is it. This is going to be my favorite age." Then another year comes and I'm thinking the same thing again!
So I guess to answer your question OP, I've loved it all. |
| I figure it will be somewhere between ages 12 & 14. My oldest is currently 9. |