If your kid has mental health issues then by all means lighten the load. But some kids do fine with a rigorous courseload. My kid wanted to take what she wanted to take and there was nothing I could do to change her mind. She did fine and even got enough sleep every night near as I could tell - in bed by 9 or 10 most nights. She was relaxed and happy. They are actually close to adulthood here you know, it’s time to start letting them choose the course of their lives. |
Why would anyone want to take 10 years of Spanish and then want to drop out? Isn’t the goal to be fluent in something? Isn’t that where you stop? |
How many teen suicide stories start with, "but she/he seemed so happy"? My concern is that the message kids are getting from school/parents/society is that they *must* to go a top college and to do that they *must* do all these things, which are really not possible for someone to do all at the same time. So a lot of them think they are failing no matter what they do. And, with the "top colleges" now having sub-10% acceptance rates, it's a crap shoot anyway, even if you somehow manage to do everything it's really very likely you won't get into your top-20 dream school. My DS has already started detailing the classes he wants to take next year (Junior year) and I've insisted that he has to put in something "fun" and strongly consider doing a regular rather than AP for at least one class. |
I do not think a top school would count the two years of Spanish in middle school so they would assume this student has 3 years of high school Spanish |
Thanks. I did mention this. Not all of them accept AP test results but a couple of them do. |
In FCPS, it counts as HS credit. Same way that taking Algebra in MS counts as HS credit. |
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First of all, four years of high school Spanish is different than getting to Spanish level 4. Getting to Spanish 4 in 11th grade shouldn't mean you're "done."
Second, so many people are talking about what is the best decision for just getting IN to college. What about being a well-educated person who can work in a field that isn't hyper local? Most companies are multi-national. Having a good working knowledge of a second language should be seen as a good thing, not just a check box for getting in to college. |
Except the kid is taking Spanish 5 in 11th grade. Also for those posters talking about the importance of foreign language proficiency and the importance of loving to learn different subjects instead of just checking boxes, I hear you but I think it is possible for a child to love learning while not loving one particular subject. |
When did we decide that you had to love the different subjects that are necessary for being an educated person? It's a huge bonus when you love math or English or science, but if you don't, you understand that it's important to continue your education in those areas to be an educated person. The same should go for language. If we teach our children to only pursue an education in the area they love, aren't we missing the boat? |
DD is in honors French 3 in an MCPS middle school. The class is 90% taught in French. |
Other options: - Pick colleges that don't have foreign language requirements. - Study a language other than Spanish in college. Maybe the son would have more fun in a French class, for example. |
Yes, if its HS level language study in MS they do. My kid is doing a full Year 1 of foreign language in 6th grade now and the new ruling with MCPS is that they can have the grade go on their HS transcript, or not (depending on the grade and how you feel about it, obviously). So by the time my kid gets into 9th grade in HS they will already have 3 HS years of foreign language achieved. |
The DS in the original post here has already taken a lot of Spanish and already seems to be taking rigorous courses. The student wants to take social science courses, not spend the time playing Donkey Kong. Bright students who can tolerate it should get a rigorous, well-rounded education, even if they hate some of the courses involved. But, at some points, kids also have to start thinking about who they actually are, who they want to be, and what they think a well-rounded person should know. If, at some point, they choose to know a little less Spanish, and a little more about Adam Smith, or a little more about the Olduvai Gorge, why not? Maybe the kid will end up working as an archaeologist in Kenya and never use Spanish. And I think the real point of what Harvard admissions people say online is that they want to see kids who are the masters of their own fate, not puppets who do what parental or college strings make them do. There has to be a balance between requirements and electives. At least some electives ought to be real electives. |
| With 5 years of Spanish, I can not imagine there will be any problems. |
I could kiss you. Thank you! |