| Who will pay for it? Depending on future career choice, what's the point of spending $$$ on a no-name SLAC when there are great and cheaper public schools? |
Your second and third sentences seem totally contradictory to me. If 95% of kids will do well anywhere, why is it so important to go to a college future employers recognize? Parents who are so focused on name brand schools strike me as lacking confidence in their own kids. How sad. |
Just curious, not attacking, but how do you know it’s been less than helpful? |
You disagree with the poster’s experiences at Georgetown? |
Fair question. I have seen in my industry how strong the UMD alumni networks are in my area. Workplaces will be full of UMD graduates and people will know many colleagues in common from school. Coupled with the curious looks I get from colleagues when they ask where I went to college (“is that in Massschusetts? Is it a women’s college?” I have come to assume that a high status college may not help you outside of high status professions (law, medicine, academia). |
We just live in a the real world where an employer is going to give the kid that goes to Maryland or UVA or Dennison the interview over the kid from Green Mountain or Berry. The fact that people are willing to pay private school tuition for these schools is astounding. Kids would be better off with two years community college to get grades up and transferring to a school people have actually heard of. |
Sure, as long as I was sure s/he did their homework and it wasn't some fly-by-night operation. |
I’m a new poster on this thread, but it seems obvious to me that “doing well” in this context means “having a good experience at college” and the PP is correct that 95% of kids are not delicate little flowers who’ll wilt in anything less than the perfect environment. I honestly feel like people falling all over themselves to defend these schools are either college administrators themselves, or are boomers who still have this romanticized view of a “liberal arts education” who haven’t grasped that it costs as much as a house to go to one of these places and most students/families just can’t afford to be so cavalier with that much money. |
Maybe you haven't grasped that there are tons of people around here who can afford it. Many sent their kids to private high schools to boot. And as some other threads have made clear, some of these LACs offer very good finiancial aid. |
| My DD is focused on a field that many schools don't offer as a major, so that has her looking at several schools we never heard of. If it's the right school for what she wants we don't have any issues. If it were a common major, we'd probably send her to the best state school she could get into. |
The idea that only struggling students go to these type of schools is not only wrong but insulting. My child was a Nat'l Merit scholar, magnet student with insane GPA, high SAT scores and tons of APs all of which were 5's. Yes, the tuition is high, but there were significant scholarships. For the majors my child is looking at, it was a good pick. DC wanted a smaller school and it has served them well. I was initially concerned with the choice, but DC knew what they needed and they were right. |
This just isn't true. If you're a hiring manager who does this, you're doing it wrong. |
I am not this poster, but I do understand the point: Georgetown is not Carleton. Georgetown is a far more religious school than Carleton is now or ever was. The Georgetown poster is just plain wrong in extrapolating his or her experience at Catholic Georgetown to nominally Cristian affiliated small liberal arts colleges. There is simply no comparison. Many students attend small liberal arts colleges nominally affiliated with Christian church having no idea of the affiliation beforehand. Anyone who attends Georgetown not knowing it’s Catholic affiliation has not done the research. |
| Circling back to the OP’s question, I for one would not pay for my child to attend anything less than a top 20 ranked school. If he or she cannot get into a top 20 school, then he or she will go to the state university. Those of you who pay tens of thousands of dollars to send your children to second and third tier private colleges are insane, in my view. What a total waste of money. |
DP THat's exactly how we do it at our firm. If you graduated from some no name college you'll never even get a first look. |