Honestly, expecting your children and grandchildren to buy homes in your exact neighborhood sounds like something that happens in small towns not a major metropolis. |
Not necessarily. The median distance Americans live from their mothers is 18 miles. And lower income, less educated people tend to live closer. https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2015/12/24/upshot/24up-family.html From the linked article: "Over all, the median distance Americans live from their mother is 18 miles, and only 20 percent live more than a couple of hours’ drive from their parents. (Researchers often study the distance from mothers because they are more likely to be caregivers and to live longer than men.) "To some extent, people’s proximity to their parents is a reflection of opportunity: The biggest determinants of how far people venture from home are education and income. Those with college and professional degrees are much more likely to live farther from their parents than those with a high school education, in part because they have more job opportunities in big cities, and especially if spouses are juggling the career aspirations of two professionals. "Wealthier people can afford to pay for services like child and elder care, while low-income families are more likely to rely on nearby relatives. It seems likely that the more education someone has, the farther from home they go, said Robert A. Pollak, an economist at Washington University’s Olin Business School in St. Louis, who studies the economics of family. Middle-class, educated two-income couples — say, a schoolteacher and a nurse — seem to be more likely to live near parents than those with higher-earning careers. “It speaks to a class divide in the population,” Mr. Pollak said. “Particularly as you go further down the socioeconomic scale, people are living pretty close to their parents, and this means they’re able to provide help.” " |
I don't think is about sacrifice, but rather about trade-offs. Antwan Wilson bought a large, essentially brand new house without a good school. People from DC know that if you're going to make that choice, you should budget for private or have a solid plan (like being on the ground floor for one of the charters you like or a selective school). There are plenty of wealthy AA families in DC, largely living EOTP. He could have spent that money on a house IB for Wilson. It wouldn't have been nearly as nice, but he wouldn't have had to worry about school. Had Ellington worked out, it all would have been fine. Or if he had legally had the child apply to Banneker or Walls. Or Latin or Basis or DCI. Or private. But he skipped the line and paid the price. And everyone who relies on public schools loses when people get to cheat. If you think Ward 3 is somehow too affluent to care, then you don't understand how this city works. Mary Cheh was among the first to call for Wilson's resignation for a reason - her constituents (the public school ones at Wilson) were outraged. The ones in private school are the ones who didn't care. And they're not reading this board. People have different priorities. That you expect everyone to agree with yours is actually what's pretty gross. |
Back when DC was a backwater (most of its history) and then the crack-den of the Barry years, that was a reasonable expectation because a large portion of DC was lower middle class and poor. That's no longer the case, and it's not going to go back those days ever again. It's the most highly-educated city per capita in the U.S. So, speaking to the class divide, it's not reasonable to expect for people to continue to think they live in Mayberry and can buy a house down the street from Aunt Bee. Not when a pair of GS-15s can pool their incomes and buy a house together with a 20 minute commute to their jobs by bike. |