Where have you been in the past five years? Have you ever heard of places like Sunshine Academy or Best Academy? They are designed to train kids for TJ since 1st grade. My tiger mom's wife have the kids going to both Sunshine academy and Best academy on weekdays, weekends and summer for math and reading, and piano lessons on weekdays and weekends. I hate to say this but I am contributing to this rat race as much as anyone. Being Asians is not easy. There are "expectations"
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| For those of you supplementing at home, what exactly do you do? |
Yes. There is a huge backlash against common core and pro hands on learning that has caused this trend against spelling, grammar, writing, handwriting. Anything written is now seen as "bad" and anything hands on is now seen as "good". Anything done in a small group is "good" and anything done as a class is "bad". Unfortunately many of the projects doled out have no resources for the kids to refer to in order to do them per the objectives of the project. So half the time the teacher doesn't have time to really teach the kids to understand the project and the kids get off track and meanwhile also aren't picking up on the skills taken out of the curriculum. |
We see this as well. Dr. Brabrand says he wants to hear about these issues. Can you please bring them up? More weight if sent out as part of the FEA or a group like that than an individual teacher or parent. |
I wonder if our kids go to the same school. My kids are at a well-regarded center school and I agree 100% with this post. Extremely disappointing. I'll add that, perhaps because it is a center school, parents push really hard to get their kids into AAP and about 40-50% of the kids from base school get in. My child who scored 96 percentile on CogAT and NNAT, had pullouts for math in first and second, plus above grade level reading did not get into AAP. I thought "fine, it's a selective program" and didn't appeal. But everyone anywhere near his level at our school is in AAP! He is NOT getting a good education in Gen Ed. There is something very wrong with this system. |
This is why parents push for AAP. It depends on where you are in the county. AAP is where my kids are getting spelling, grammar, writing, and where they are assigned on or above grade level books to be read outside of class. At our base school, little or nothing is expected outside of school. |
| Let me clarify that it's not overwhelming homework. Usually it's required reading and math practice. |
What is "this"? I don't like the way AAP is organized and personally feel that a gifted program that serves the needs of kids who are actually gifted (or kids who actually have needs!) would be better. Other than not having AAP, what does the Arlington do well? |
+1 I have heard this from several different kinds of families. |
+1 People who grew up in FCPS take issue with that, but it is the truth. |
+1 I do too. Also, in AAP, there are a few disruptive kids that maybe should be in GE, but their tiger parents found a way around the system, and no one wants to cave to potentially insinuated racial issues. Newsflash: it is not the parents in AAP, it should be the child. |
Lets be clear though that Arlington identifies gifted students in kindergarten and they have kids switch classes for "AAP" type instruction. In addition, Arlington has a slew of magnet schools. So in some ways regarding advanced children Arlington is very similar to Fairfax. |
OP here. Maybe I should have been more of a tiger parent? I just figured if my child belonged in AAP, she would end up there. She does really well in school, but I am starting to realize standardized tests are not her strength. This means regular ed, which is why I started this post. |
+1 This is the way it should be. Less of a chance of being coached/tutored "into" AAP. IME, if you need such coaching/tutoring, you don't belong in AAP, and it does the child no favors, but Tiger moms won't hear of it. |
OP, the real issue is that there are students in AAP who do not belong, which might be a different issue than whether or not YOUR child belongs. Just because certain parents are trying to save face (by putting there child in AAP, when they clearly have no business there, if you are an AAP parent you see this once in a while, and it is obvious -- though no one would suspect it otherwise).
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