Yes. Just lie. Go with your significant other, tell them you SAH, will walk the dog three times a day, provide hours of "engaging" play, feed it only organic meat, give up your bed so the dog can have it, never plan to have children, will only take vacations where the dog can go with you, and that basically 110% of your energy will be devoted to giving your dog the most amazing life ever. It's what all these wingnuts at the agencies want to hear. They are basically the dog version of every annoying "conscious attachment parenting" person with kids you know. |
EXACTLY. If these people really cared about these animals, they wouldn't turn down good families with kids. But most of them are ideological demagogues, IME. |
Sorry, but the home visit requirement is insane. It's invasive and people are busy. Plus, who the hell are you to decide? |
A quick google search returns many hits on "why do dog rescue groups do home visits". A highlight: "The rescue isn’t there to judge your decorating style or housekeeping skills. It simply wants to make sure you are who you say you are and not a hoarder, lab, reseller or someone who has lied on their application about their home, family and lifestyle." |
I have no dog in this fight (ha) because the rescue I work with doesn't do home visits. However, I don't buy the "people are busy" excuse. It's a few minutes of your time for what will probably be a 10 year+ commitment. If you're "too busy" for that how are you going to handle a needy dog? Same reason why I think it's crazy people complain about having to show up early and wait in line for a dog at rescue events. It's very rare that someone who wants a puppy doesn't get one with my group. Maybe not the exact one you wanted if it had a lot of interest, but a lovely puppy nonetheless. |
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I think it is creepy and invasive when the groups ask for references, in addition to the info for every vet I've ever had, my landlord, etc. I mean, what are these people going to ask my friends?
I would then have to prep my friends to say all the right things (that I don't have to work, have no children, have servants waiting to massage dog 8+ hours daily). When the application is over two pages, just say no. |
Yeah see, but I'm not going to agree to you checking up on me in any context for any reason. I'm just not. It's nuts, sorry. Ditto references. Keep it in perspective. I did all this to adopt my SON. But I'm not offering some shelter volunteer a visit to my home to adopt a dog. |
Um, they're the people who currently own the animal? Take it or leave it. |
Exactly. These shelter people lose sight that there are millions of animals who need homes, and they overplay the stats on people abandoning animals. Most well-dressed articulate people coming to adoption events are not hoarders who are going to abandon an animal. Give me a break. |
With the stated goal of finding the dog a new home, right? The actions are counter-productive to the stated goals. |
It is a power trip. |
Hmm, somehow my rescue group placed about 500 dogs last year despite "counter productive" policies. |
| It's much easier just to buy the dog from a breeder. You know what you are going to get and there is no invasive questioning or home visiting. |
Snide rescue workers and draconian policies are the reason so many choose other options, and millions of dogs get euthanized every year. 500 dogs is a drop in the bucket. |
Let me guess - 500 highly paid millennials with no kids and the expendable cash to hire dog walkers? Amiright? |