Why in the world would blame matter? Why are you so obsessed with placing blame? What it really comes down to is that you DO think the kids should be punished for the parents' mistakes. |
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It's about the poverty -- which leads to brain impairment and bad choices all around.
When it's inter-generational, the parents are literally cognitively impaired, as are the children. https://today.duke.edu/2016/10/how-living-poverty-affects-children%E2%80%99s-brain-development |
| My kid comes from a loving middle class home. He also has documented SNs and an IEP. He did not ask for his learning disabilities and mental health issues. I have seen firsthand how out-of-school suspensions affect kids with SNs. Kids like mine have a right to a public education, just as your neurotypical kids do. I stand with the ACLU and Every Student, Every Day on this one. There are clear violations of procedure going on, and violations of student and parent rights as well. |
plus 10000000. We are paying enormous amounts of money to send our child to a private SN school, and I feel so much sympathy for kids whose parents don't have that choice. This is an outrage. |
Dcps self contained teacher here. Self contained rooms are in under enrolled schools. The 'good' schools do not have space. That being said- there is an effort to branch out. Murch & Lafayette will be hosting self contained rooms next year. It'll be interesting to listen in on the school buzz. |
It's hard to separate the effects of poverty on intelligence with low intelligence causing poverty. I'd put my money on the latter. |
I think you mean alternative schools |
They are lost causes. And dancing around it does nobody any good. |
Mic drop |
If your kid hurls a chair at a teacher, there should be a consequence. Other kids shouldn't have to be scared in the classroom. |
Yea, but why they got to suspend? They supposed to be teaching them, but they aint want do there job. Smh. |
| I'm the PP who wrote about having a SN kid who was suspended, multiple times. MY KID NEVER HURLED A CHAIR AT A TEACHER, EVER. MY KID NEVER THREATENED OTHER STUDENTS, EVER. The offenses that prompted the disciplinary responses were behaviors that could and should have been addressed by the school at the school. |
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I don't get the posters who are pouring cold water over the Ron Brown idea, saying it won't fix anything for these children until we fix their parents. They appear to come from both the liberal side and the conservative side.
We don't have an answer for fixing the parents, but Ron Brown is a promising idea for making life better for the kids and the kids they may some day have. I am all for giving it a good chance and remaining open to possible success. Not particularly relevant, but am the mother of a student who pretty much treated her DCPS high school as optional as soon as she turned 18. The principal told her she had the worst attendance record of anyone in the school. I had no idea. Turned out she had a debilitating illness that took a while to figure out. DCPS was not our friend in trying to make alternative arrangements for a degree in a way that would accommodate her illness, so she ended up with a GED instead. |
At home and un-monitored suspension doesn't help the suspended child learn, but I'm willing to weigh that against the fact that now everyone else in the classroom can do their jobs: the teacher can teach, and the other students can now learn. I guess I value the success of the many of that of the incorrigible one. Having said that, there's a better solution and that is IN SCHOOL SUSPENSION. Put the student in a monitored classroom and still make him learn. Don't reward him for his bad behavior (he probably misbehaved to be sent home anyway). Keep in on track, but provide him with the disciple and structure he needs to stay on task. And still keep him away from the rest of the population. |
Are you serious? What consequence do you suggest? Would you want to be in a classroom with a chair thrower? Would you want your child in the classroom of a chair thrower? Suspend them IN SCHOOL WITH SUPERVISION. But keep them away from everyone else. |