DH's backwards baseball cap

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A couple of years after law school, I was clerking for a court of appeals judge in Brownsville, Texas. I was living on South Padre Island, a big spring break destination. I was in my early 30s, but I went to the parties nevertheless. The judge's clerks always had, but I was the oldest clerk the judge had ever hired. One night, one of the judge's former clerks and I were heading out to the main spring break hangout. He was wearing a backwards cap and brought one for me because he said it would make me look younger. His did make him look younger because he was losing his hair. I, however, still had all mine even though I was older. I didn't wear the hat. It just wasn't me.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm sure our husbands don't like everything we wear. But the women here would go ballistic if their man was like "wow, those booties are really ugly and make your legs look like stumps" or "do you own anything other than yoga pants?" So, leave it alone.

Not to throw in a wrench, but do they even notice? I'm not sure.

Yes husbands notice but 99% of them are cowardly weaklings who fear confrontation with their wife so they never say anything.

Cowardly? Not quite honey. Men know that women are fragile - they can dish out the criticism but they can't take it. So men know that if they want to get laid, keep the mouth shut and her legs might remain open. Choose to offer an opinion, he's either sleeping on the couch or next to a Mrs. Frosty.

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People who wear baseball caps backwards are just as bad as people who wear their hats indoors.

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Anonymous wrote:My DH does this and he has longish curly hair. He looks really cute. I definitely don't dictate what my DH wears or how he wears his clothes or accessories. That's pretty controlling and THANK GOD, I'm not married to a spineless man who would tolerate his wife behaving like a controlling smother. hat or not, being married to someone who wants to be controlled and micromanaged down to his hat, it not sexy at all.

This. You women really do know how to pick the weakling beta men.

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Anonymous wrote:Backwards is better than a visor!!

Oh yes. Or sunglasses on their head. Boy I hate that look.

Where should he put them if walking around indoors?

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Anonymous wrote:DH just can't seem to grow out of his frat boy days and must still think he's super cool when wears a backwards baseball cap, which is all the time. I think it's ridiculous for a 30-something, but I also don't want to be accused of controlling his wardrobe choices. Still, I think it looks so silly and immature. Is this a battle worth fighting?

Hmm, I wonder what his complaints are about you Ms. Perfect?

You know he has plenty of them... and they're probably WAY more related to character defects, than a stupid baseball cap worn backwards.

Although, he probably realizes that characteristics such as tolerance, acceptance consideration & kindness far outweighs being superficial, shallow, judgmental & sanctimonious.

It's ironic that you described his fashion choice & "silly & immature" because that's exactly how you come across in this post. You sound extremely immature, insecure & yes, silly & you certainly seem to care FAR too much about what other people think of you (not of him, of YOU).
Clearly you're worried about what other people will think of YOU for allowing him to dress in such a way.
I msean, why else would you care so much about something so insignificant, especially if it makes him happy?

A word in maturity, unconditional love & compromise... if this is your only complaint about him & he's generally a good guy, then YOU'RE the one who should be taking a hard look in the mirror & getting a character makeover.

Pick better battles.

First world problems, ffs.

Yikes, someone needs a chill pill today. Or another cup of coffee.

Awww, don't get defensive OP.

There you go again, trying to force your opinions (or chill pills) on others, lol.

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Anonymous wrote:A couple of years after law school, I was clerking for a court of appeals judge in Brownsville, Texas. I was living on South Padre Island, a big spring break destination. I was in my early 30s, but I went to the parties nevertheless. The judge's clerks always had, but I was the oldest clerk the judge had ever hired. One night, one of the judge's former clerks and I were heading out to the main spring break hangout. He was wearing a backwards cap and brought one for me because he said it would make me look younger. His did make him look younger because he was losing his hair. I, however, still had all mine even though I was older. I didn't wear the hat. It just wasn't me.

I used to dance on a show on MTV & for 2 or 3 years in a row, we filmed our Spring Break show from South Padre Island & I LOVED it!

The people were awesome, the food was indulgent, everyone was so sweet (especially the local mom & pop businesses), the weather was absolutely perfect & the southern hospitality couldn't have been better.

South Padre Island was by far my favorite shoot location out of all of the places we traveled for Spring Break.

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Anonymous wrote:Does he by any chance look like this ....

Yuck.

Matthew is definitely not hot.

But it COULD always be worse.

At least he doesn't wear a man bun or headband.

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Anonymous wrote:Backwards is better than a visor!!

Oh yes. Or sunglasses on their head. Boy I hate that look.

Where should he put them if walking around indoors?

Fold them up and hang them on their shirt or a pocket. FFS don't walk around with them pushed up on your head.

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Anonymous wrote:Backwards is better than a visor!!

Oh yes. Or sunglasses on their head. Boy I hate that look.

Where should he put them if walking around indoors?

Fold them up and hang them on their shirt or a pocket.
FFS don't walk around with them pushed up on your head.

That doesn't say frat boy, that says waspy douche.

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To answer your question OP no this is not a battle worth fighting.

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Make him catch batting practice. That's what my coach used to make us do if he found us wearing our cap backwards. He said, only catchers are allowed to do that. This afternoon, you are the catcher.

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Does he call everybody, including you, "bro?"

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Anonymous wrote:Cannot stand the look. Reeks of fratboy tool.

+1

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Anonymous wrote:Show him this and maybe he will stop...

Is that a glamour shot? Hilarious!