What's the longest affair (time) you've heard of

[Anonymous]

5+ years with older married woman beginning when I was a single unattached grad student.

[Anonymous]

Warren Buffett had an affair for something like 25 years.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:5+ years with older married woman beginning when I was a single unattached grad student.

Same here but I really think it was more of a FWB deal. While we liked each other a lot there was no real emotional connection. I was a young consultant who traveled Monday thru Friday and never found time to have a real GF. She was around 40 and had a very high libido and I was a horny young guy so it was a great match for about 4 years. She finally left her husband and found someone else so I was soon history but it was nice while it lasted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:5+ years with older married woman beginning when I was a single unattached grad student.

Same here but I really think it was more of a FWB deal. While we liked each other a lot there was no real emotional connection. I was a young consultant who traveled Monday thru Friday and never found time to have a real GF. She was around 40 and had a very high libido and I was a horny young guy so it was a great match for about 4 years. She finally left her husband and found someone else so I was soon history but it was nice while it lasted.

More physical than anything else. Mid 40 women are like HS boys physically. It worked out.

[Anonymous]

The longest I knew of was 20+ years. A friend's dad had another family on the other side of town. The second family and the older kids knew. The youngest kids did not know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:After 3 years it's not an affair it's a relationship

If one or both people are married to others, it certainly is an affair. One or both are being unfaithful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:After 3 years it's not an affair it's a relationship

If one or both people are married to others, it certainly is an affair. One or both are being unfaithful.

They are all adults.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:5+ years with older married woman beginning when I was a single unattached grad student.

Same here but I really think it was more of a FWB deal. While we liked each other a lot there was no real emotional connection. I was a young consultant who traveled Monday thru Friday and never found time to have a real GF. She was around 40 and had a very high libido and I was a horny young guy so it was a great match for about 4 years. She finally left her husband and found someone else so I was soon history but it was nice while it lasted.

More physical than anything else. Mid 40 women are like HS boys physically. It worked out.

PP here - my DW is in her mid-40's and she is not nearly as horny as a HS boy but she does love sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Warren Buffett had an affair for something like 25 years.

Really?? I didn't know that...

Also did Arnold Schwarzenegger have an affair with their housekeeper for 14 years and have a baby with her?

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Anonymous wrote:I once read this forum for other women and some of the stories made me sad. Some of these women have self esteem issues. Some had been the ow for decades. Some had children with the MM. the one that broke my heart was one woman gave birth alone. The MM was coming in a couple of weeks to meet the baby awful.

I think I know that forum. It drives me crazy. All these women who listened to the man say he's going to leave his wife, they're going to be together, and then years and years go by as they wait. It's sad, but also maddening. No one should waste their life waiting for a man. Either be happy with the status quo or dump him, but don't live in purgatory forever.

I mean...Scaramucci's wife gave birth alone while he demanded a paternity test. Is that any better than giving birth alone because he chose someone else?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Warren Buffett had an affair for something like 25 years.

Really?? I didn't know that...

Also did Arnold Schwarzenegger have an affair with their housekeeper for 14 years and have a baby with her?

Yep and Shriver didn't find out until the kid was like 15 or something....while he lived in her house (live-in housekeeper) and their sons were friends. Surprised she didn't kill him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My sister...17 years. We grew up in a small Southern town, my dad was a judge, my mom a principal. They were decent people at heart but really cared about "our family image." She fell in love with a black basketball player from the next town over when she was 15 or so. She fought like her with my parents from 15 to 21. They were just so so against it. She couldn't pick him over them. She tried and then would be miserable and break up with him...cycle would repeat. One summer after college she just announced she was marrying the white lawyer from out town. My parents were SO SO happy and she was so happy to make them happy. HUGE wedding, two kids, great life. All these years later she still sees him quite often. No one knows but me and my brother suspects. She's a really great mom and wife too...she just can't forget him.

She fell in love with the bbc.

[Anonymous]

Mine has been going on for 3 + years. The second year I realized I would never want a LTR with this guy. He's good in bed and that's about it. My AP is single.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:5+ years with older married woman beginning when I was a single unattached grad student.

Same here but I really think it was more of a FWB deal. While we liked each other a lot there was no real emotional connection. I was a young consultant who traveled Monday thru Friday and never found time to have a real GF. She was around 40 and had a very high libido and I was a horny young guy so it was a great match for about 4 years. She finally left her husband and found someone else so I was soon history but it was nice while it lasted.

More physical than anything else. Mid 40 women are like HS boys physically. It worked out.

PP here - my DW is in her mid-40's and she is not nearly as horny as a HS boy but she does love sex.

Mine was. And she always felt guilty thinking she's taking advantage even though I was in my 20s. There's something to be young and being able to satisfy an older woman.

[Anonymous]

"Mine was. And she always felt guilty thinking she's taking advantage even though I was in my 20s. There's something to be young and being able to satisfy an older woman."

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Usually younger guys who get involved with an old lady long term (i.e. not just a one night stand) do so because they have no game and can't get with someone their own age.