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This reminds me of the thread where some poor guy asked the OP's niece to be a reference and the OP and her sister advised the niece to block the guy and reject the investigator. I remember saying I hope karma bites the niece in the ass when she actually needs other people as references.
All in all this just reminds me to choose better people as references. |
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I do this for a friend. I have had investigators show up announced and unannounced at work and home over the years. My friend tells me that I always have the right to decline if I am uncomfortable, or to request a different location.
You are well within your rights to request a location that's not your home, especially if you live alone. And ask to see their identification. |
| They usually come to my office. Only weird question was about one friend and if I thought he was into anything weird sexually. |
| It's normal. The investigator should show you an ID that shows they are with the federal government (OPM I think), and they'll ask you a bunch of questions. Just answer honestly, even when it seems they are invasive questions. It will make your friends processing much easier if you do. |
Really? Do you watch the traffic reports on weekday mornings in DC? I don't think it is as popular as you think. |
This happened to me about 5 years ago. They knocked on the door and asked some questions about a neighbor I didn't know. I did my best to answer them. It was weird at first but I was happy they investigate so well. |
They did this for my clearance 3 years ago. My old lady neighbor was furious. She was a strange lady though. They also knocked on doors in my previous apartment building in a prior city, god only knows who they talked to (that was an interesting group of people), and all up and down the street I grew up on. The reason they do it is to make sure that they aren't troublemakers in the building/on the block. They figure neighbors would know if someone was dealing drugs or running a prostitution ring (or leaving a dog cooped up for days at a time, neglecting their child, hitting a child, etc). If you don't know them, and have benign things to say its a good thing. |
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They asked my third-grade teacher whether I smoked pot.
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| OP, I am on your side in terms of finding it odd that someone would meet me at home in this situation. The prior poster's comment have been educational, as one of my friends every few years asks me if I can be a reference. I have not been contacted yet, but this is a good thread to keep in mind in case I do. |
+1. What is up with you nut jobs? OP said she never experienced this before; just because you have you're jumping all over her? |
We've answered questions about neighbors in the last few years. Probably half my neighbors work for the government in some capacity, and DH has a security clearance so I'm sure they've been asked about him. Not a big deal. |
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I wouldn't want some random stranger inside my home.
I have learned this is normal around here. We once had an IT contractor trying to get clearance. I got a call from an investigator and I originally thought the guy was being investigated for a crime. I quickly realized that the guy put me down as a reference. Investigator asked me very basic questions. I didn't know him personally, just minimal chit chat. I think they asked me questions about how I knew him, how long, what work he did for us, his trustworthiness and I want to say he asked me if he had suspicious behavior. It took less than 10 minutes. |
SO funny I just did this, and I met him at a Starbucks. Very friendly, took about an hour, ask nothing about you but how you know your friend, how long have you known her, does she know any foreign nationals, does she have any issues with drugs/alcohol, and an odd one, does she have any anxiety/mental health issues. Also do you know anything about her that would not be good to know (you know what I mean), try not to over answer and also obviously if you know any embarassing secrets or anxiety do NOT mention, |
PP here , I was lucky enough that my friend has been a goody two shoes (in a good way) since Ive known her not sure about your friend...but my guess answers in the affirmative to those would not be key
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OP, it was a first for me too and freaked me out a bit but really simple process |