| UMBC is a commuter school. The campus vibe will be very different. |
Medicine is very different than business. You are not comparing it properly. |
Science is very different... it is what you know not who you know. Which makes a college with connections less necessary. |
In your situation it made sense. I'd do the same offer. It doesn't sound like that is OP situation. |
OP says that she will need to take loans for Stanford. In such a case, they should pause and ask - what field does OP's kid wants to get into? Will she need further higher education after Stanford? How will this education be funded? What doors the Stanford name will open for her? Do a cost-benefit analysis, a ROI and then decide. Maybe the loans are a good idea because Stanford will afford them opportunities in the chosen field that no other school can offer. |
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Education is like medicine, it is really hard to do a dispassionate cost/benefit analysis because people are so variable and change so much with time.
When you are dying, it is hard to weight the costs versus 6 more months of life. When you have a child, it is hard not to hope they would benefit more than they will from the best. |
Where did OP say that? I don't think OP has posted again (troll?). |
| It took you people 4 pages to find out OP is a troll? OMG people... |
Let's try to stay on topic. The OP indicated her child is interested in medicine, not business, so where business leaders went to school is in no way helpful to this discussion. Plus, since such a teeny tiny, minuscule percentage of grads go on to become CEOs anyway, it really doesn't make sense to point out where CEOs went to school. It makes more sense to compare the career success and prospects of the *average* say, Stanford grad vs. UMBC grad. |
You're an idiot who doesn't read much do you? This scenario of a student choosing UMBC over Standford was reported on in the New York Times, Forbes magazine and several other news outlets. One of the PPs posted the link to the story of Isaac Kinde in this thread? Did you not read it? And why do these kinds of choices bring out so much passion among people in any case? Is is your decision to make? Your child's? |
well if it's not our decision to make, or our children's, why did OP post in the first place? |
Two different universes for YOUR DAUGHTER to decide. Signed, Stanford grad |
| If you are a minority, it may make sense to go to UMBC, but if not, go to Stanford. |
| Why does your daughter prefer umbc? |
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I get PP's point about OP's daughter deciding but we do not know her reasoning. Is it sound? Is she anxious about cost?My DC, a college sophomore is, despite assurances from me that we can afford it since his grandparents are paying.
What about telling DD to try Stanford and transfer if she likes. Has she visited? Not sure if that was mentioned. |