Pick a lane...PICK A NAME!

[Anonymous]

I don't understand why they need to be Grandma Sarah and Grandma Jane and can't just both be Grandma? We called both sets of grandparents Grandma and Grandpa growing up and no one ever had a problem with it. If my parents were talking about them they'd say "Boston Grandma" or "New York Grandma" to differentiate, but that wasn't even that common.

But anyway, the grandmama thing is really, really annoying!!

[Anonymous]

It could be worse, my FIL wanted to be called the Welsh name for grandfather, which translates to something like "tadka". We were like "dude, if you can't pronounce it, how do you expect a toddler to pronounce it?". Moron.

[Anonymous]

My BFF has to refer to her mother-in-law as "Mrs. LastName" and the kids call her "Grandmother LastName." This is in Maryland. Uber pretentious, I think.

[Anonymous]

For whatever reason this was important to my MIL.

We lived close to them. So when my mom came to town, my mom became "new grandma". And my MIL was "OLD grandma"

My mom, of course, loved this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why they need to be Grandma Sarah and Grandma Jane and can't just both be Grandma? We called both sets of grandparents Grandma and Grandpa growing up and no one ever had a problem with it. If my parents were talking about them they'd say "Boston Grandma" or "New York Grandma" to differentiate, but that wasn't even that common.

But anyway, the grandmama thing is really, really annoying!!

This. My kids also have two Grandmas. We only use "Grandma FirstName" if they are not present, we are talking about them and need to clarify. To their faces/in their presence they are just Grandma.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why they need to be Grandma Sarah and Grandma Jane and can't just both be Grandma? We called both sets of grandparents Grandma and Grandpa growing up and no one ever had a problem with it. If my parents were talking about them they'd say "Boston Grandma" or "New York Grandma" to differentiate, but that wasn't even that common.

But anyway, the grandmama thing is really, really annoying!!

I know right? I had the same issue. My mother obsessed about her grandparent name and wanted to be different than my MIL, like one couldn't be Grandma A and Grandma L. She cycled through 3-5 different names arlready. Should I be worried about Grandmama? (which by the