Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you have guests and family coming to stay with you from out of town, and they are coming in late with, say, a baby or two...PLEASE HAVE THEIR BED READY. Perhaps it a pet peeve, but I just had a looong trip. I want to put the kids to sleep, and I want to go to sleep. I don't want to hear that the sheets are in the wash, and we just have to dry them and then make up the beds. You've known we were coming for a month.
This is pet peeve of mine, especially when we've been guilted into driving a long way so someone else can have a photo opp and show the neighbors they hosted.
People who spend a long time talking about how important a holiday is, and no time preparing for it should not be hosting. They should be guests.
Now I either stay at a hotel or have it at my own home and say, "We really don't want to put you out. I know we can be a handful...(needing beds)" or "The kids really sleep better in their own beds."