It's statements like these that always make me laugh. We live in this area, do we not? Why are some of you so hung up on whether others may or may not have heard of certain schools? Hopefully you realize there are thousands of colleges across the U.S. and you've probably only heard of a handful of them. The vast majority of students will attend regional or state schools. But you keep on worrying about name national name recognition. I assure you, no one else cares. |
I think you missed the point of what I said; I was saying that you shouldn't worry about it because past a few name schools it doesn't matter. UMBC = JMU = GMU; they all provide a good education. |
You're not sure where I'm getting my information from? You didn't see the links to the US News profiles, hiding in plain sight? Plenty of kids can be happy at JMU and GMU. We can agree to disagree about how to assess their overall quality. |
| Another point is the kid may decide not to go to an in-state school in either state. Sometimes kids just want to go somewhere else and some schools it may be easier to get out of state waved. My spouse went across country while I went to a state school in the state next to mine. Decide where you live on the schools that they would go to now and let things just happen when the kid gets older. |
Sometimes it's not kid's decision which school they go to, it's the parent's decision. I live in Virginia and there's no way my kid is going to UMCP. |
What if they got into UC you would say no if it was somehow fully covered? Silly, thinks that you have full control of your child. |
The best thing in the world would be if your kid pushed-back, funded the difference themselves, and went wherever they thought was best. Then you would have an adult who would be proud of themselves, and a better chance that you would be proud of them and view them as an adult. |
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But how likely is that to happen?
Most kids, even bright kids, aren't going to land sizeable scholarships at a "good" university. Nor would I encourage kids to take out large loans when they can go in-state paid for by parents or with far less debt. I wouldn't think highly of a kid who took out large debts when he had a decent in-state option available. Given how expensive college is these days, I'm sympathetic to the parents who tell their kids to apply in-state. Is it worth it to go out of state (public or private) over a decent instate option? Perhaps if it was Harvard, yes, but Skidmore or Kenyon or Tennessee when you can go to JMU? If the kid funds the differential at no extra cost to the parents nor requiring loans, that's great, but that's not a realistic scenario to hope for for most people. Save the money for grad school.
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| Isn't it pretty difficult to get into UVa or even William and Mary these days, especially for NoVA residents? |
Yes, which is ridiculous considering how much tax money NoVA provides to fund these schools. Interesting article; though it's from 2008, it still applies today. http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2008/04/11/AR2008041104052.html |
Or you use this as a process to teach your kids about making financially responsible decisions. When I was making my college decision, I applied to a couple in-state universities (well regarded regionally but not national names), and a few out-of-state including an Ivy. I got in everywhere but did not get any scholarships. So, the choice was go to a great in-state university with my parents paying for the whole thing or take a large amount of loans to go someplace else. If I really, really, really wanted to go out of state they would have reluctantly helped me with the loan application process but strongly advocated to go where we could afford. I went with the in-state option, had a fabulous college experience, got a great job out of college doing exactly what I wanted to do and have continued to have a good career in that field. And I never had the weight of loans on me. THAT is worth so much more than whether or not DC thinks the out-of-state campus just feels better. |
Plenty of kids can be happy at VT and VCU. |
Va- 1. UVA 2. WM 3. JMU 4. VT 5. UMW Md- 1. USNA 2. UMD 3. St Mary's 4. UMBC |
This looks about right |
What a load of crap that is. |