Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If this is a problem, your child needs to be keeping up with the material more as it is taught. Maybe study some every night instead of cramming. [/b]You are well on the path to being a helicopter mom whose child will never grow up if you always blame the teacher and not realize that one of the most important skills to learn as a child is how to adapt to varying expectations. Do not shelter her, help her learn to deal with the system. Now she knows. There will not be much warning, so she must keep up-to-date on the information.
Oh please. Why are people so quick to through out the "helicopter mom" label? I have not said one word to the teacher. I haven't even said anything to my child. It just seems a little sudden to me and I'm wondering what others think. Isn't that what forums are for?
OP, please don't sweat the posts with typical DCUM snarkiness.[b] Posters here love to accuse any parent who cares about their kid's day to day school life of being a helicopter parent. Do anything more than tell Johnny to "Go do your homework"--take any interest, know your kid's schedule, know what topics your kid is actually learning, question the way a teacher does anything--and you're an overbearing helicopter parent! God forbid you should teach Johnny that there are actual study skills that might help him learn to learn.
There's a difference between caring about your kid and being a helicopter parent. Making sure overall your kid is doing well in school = caring about your kid. Worrying about whether the teacher is giving enough time for a 4th grader to study for a test = helicopter parenting. If your kid is failing, I can see why you would worry. If your kid is in HS, I can see why you would care because it may affect overall GPA which is important for college application. But, worrying about this for a 4th grader if your kid is otherwise doing fine, I think is hovering.
If OP is not worrying, then I'm not sure why you would post such a question. Or do you post every inane question on here... like "should I eat this cake?" or "should I get the elf on the shelf for my kid?".