Universities want diverse student bodies, not just kids with high scores. Diversity means: rural/urban, white/color, single family households/both parents, sports/theatre, rich/poor. It adds to the richness of the experience. |
As long as you have the grades, this is pretty much true. My DD does have some unique volunteer experience, awesome grades, and ok sat scores. She is recruited athlete and got in to her top choice, highly selective school. I doubt she would have gotten in otherwise. |
Do you really believe EVERYTHING you read...? Seriously, if you're going to try and debate about something then avoid anecdotal stories that are not based on any fact. To suggest that the scoring is somehow rigged against Asians (or anyone else for that matter) is simply ridiculous! |
They are penalized but it is what it is. Schools call it holistic admission process. |
Same. And last year when my son was applying, many parents were shocked by the same type of rejections. Another PP nailed it, too many kids, too similar, all wanting the same thing, college, etc. |
NP here, agree. College applications aren't a test where you're shooting for 100 %. You're trying to find the best fit for your interests and personality out of the places that want you. Kind of like dating. |
To clarify, I got into t25 schools but not top10 schools. My siblings all got into top10 schools and it was clear they wouldn't have without the recruiting hook. Plus they enjoyed their college experience way more than me and did better academically due to the structure of playing said sport and the built in friendships via teammates. |
Are you for real? Who has admissions officers with time to check parent politics? Money for donations, maybe, but I've heard from advancement officers that the advancement office gets a limited # of put-forwards per year. Barring major royality, etc. I cant believe places other than a few Highly religious schools have time for this. You just sound like you're trying to assign blame in a process that's slready a crapshoot. |
which sports? the Ivy-league type? lacrosse, crew, water polo, etc.? |
Your DC is a moron and that could have ended very badly. |
I didn't bother reading most of the thread but anecdotal I've seen the opposite. DS and most of his friends are in at their top choices. |
Yeah, sure. I don't believe you. |
To the contrary, DC was well organized and intelligent about the process. The two applications (private was early, public was was regular - but with a very, very early deadline) were due the same month. DC applied to the private early and first, but still had a few weeks until the admissions decision, at the time the public application was due. DC also had six other applications prepared and ready to go for the regular admissions deadlines, but did not submit those applications once the first-choice private university admitted DC early. You are welcome. My "moron" is not one of those students who continues to submit multiple applications at the regular deadline solely in an attempt to collect multiple acceptances. And that, PP, benefits other applicants who most want to attend those schools. The public application was not pulled so that DC can compare which, if any, merit scholarship is available. |
Original poster, I agree with the Previous Poster who said that the college admissions process is not a test on which you are trying to attain a score of 100%.
Your student was admitted to three universities, and one of those colleges is sufficiently competitive that they rejected the class valedictorian. Please do not complain that there are some rejects in the mix, as it potentially and unnecessarily diminishes your child's accomplishment in your eyes and theirs. It also can make you sound a bit entitled and petulant (which I am certain you are not). Rejoice! Because your DC will attend a great university next year. |
Not if one was EA. |