I said 6 man hours and I was talking about a deep cleaning. My kids clean up every night before they get dessert: their toys, wipe kitchen table/sweep kitchen floor, put away laundry, etc., so I wasn't counting those. Those I think of as "chores" vs. what my housekeeper does every other week. |
My worst nightmare is a MIL like you. |
Unless they are taking up more land than the families which came before them, I don't see any reason you should be complaining. It's their money, they can buy a big house if they want. |
Why? Do you intend to live with your MIL?
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Do you work? If not, then cleaning should be your entire job, as it would take you about 40 hours a week to scrub from top to bottom. |
so you could have one wing while your spouse has another? |
Is this your house? |
Listen, bitch My nanny "raises" my kids each morning from 6:30 to 9:30 b/c I'm at work by 7 am. (short commute) And no, we don't live in a McMansion. We live in a 2400 sq. ft. home in the outer burbs b/c my husband likes land. So stop being such a goddamn extremist. There are many of us who work, who have nannies/other childcare, and who outsource our cleaning. Get a grip, lady. love your use of Hispanic names, by the way . . . As an Hispanic, thanks for perpetuating stereotypes. |
So, pretty much same as my house, except I am also doing light cleaning of bathrooms, vacuum of bedrooms and making beds. My 2 man-hours makes sense. You can call it chores, kid's job, whatever - but to have a clean house - either you light clean everyday - or you learn to live with some mess and do a deep down cleaning every weekend. No getting away from it! Even if you clean as you go, you will cumulatively spend that much time. |
Better this house than two hours of life wasted on cleaning every day. |
No, I love my husband, but I love having space for everything. |
It is 6 man-hours. And it seems right for the price. Do they do your laundry? Take care of clutter? Change sheets? Fold and put laundered clothes in dressers? |
If you clean your own house, the market clearly doesn't think you're as smart as you believe. |
Really? I am quite house proud. Why buy a house and pay mortgage if you live like the people in "Hoarders"? I have a neighbor like that, she does not call anyone and her kids do not play with anyone because their house is filthy. Do not think of it as 2 hours of your life, think of it as 2 man-hours and divvy up the work with your family members. Maybe if you all work together - it will be just 20-30 minutes of your time. |
So . . . if you want 10,000 sq ft to store your stuff, what I'm imagining right now is the much smaller home of a hoarder. good thing your husband loves you |