+2. Same was true for my kid who got into a USNWR top 10 school (how's that for avoiding "top Ivy" and "HYP"?). The alum interviewer never saw DC's transcript. For the record, DC got in with Calc AB. I agree alum interviewers have something to offer. But I disagree, strongly, that parents have nothing to offer. If you want to ignore everybody but the self-identified alum interviewers, it's a free country -- but restricting info like this will be your loss! |
I think that the Harvard interviewer who has commented here has been quite insightful. I think you do him/her a disservice to assume what his activities are without inquiring. I appreciate your thoughts but I think I'll keep reading and see what other tidbits of real information he might offer. Sure, the Harvard alum interview has tidbits to offer, and nobody here has said otherwise. What we're saying is, you're limiting your info-gathering to a single poster here, and that's a mistake that will prevent you from taking in lots of other helpful info. Other people with real-life experience DO have info to offer and it's not "pure speculation" in the least. Perhaps you'll understand better after you've gone through the process yourself, with your kid. Meanwhile, try not to go ga-ga over a single poster from Harvard. |
I think that the Harvard interviewer who has commented here has been quite insightful. I think you do him/her a disservice to assume what his activities are without inquiring. I appreciate your thoughts but I think I'll keep reading and see what other tidbits of real information he might offer. Idiot. PP is right to say the Harvard interviewer, while experienced in some admissions areas, rarely discusses transcripts and never sees them unless the kid brings them to the interview. You are doing your child a real disservice if you discount all other sources of advice. |
I'd post about my kid who got into a USNWR top 5 with AP Calc and a national-level achievement in the arts. But this idiot doesn't want to hear it because I'm not a Hahvahrd Inteviewer. |
| It appears that one poster has taken this way over the top. The Harvard poster never said she didn't appreciate what other parents said but wanted more information from somebody in the business. The posters who spout 'idiot'...your disruptive brand is all other the college forum. I can't imagine anyone not wanting info whether it came from Harvard or Nebraska State. Good info can be used ANYWHERE. |
Then why don't you share the benefits of your wisdom and stop with the name calling? |
IMO this is the problem, way back on page 1. This poster very clearly says she only wants advice from actual college and high school counselors. This person sounds sweet (I'll give her the benefit of the doubt), but very naive. It's true, as others have said, that the Harvard interviewer may have insight, and in fact I've seen her here before and she's been very helpful. But, the Harvard interviewer is an alum not an actual admissions officer. Therefore, the Harvard alum interviewer never sees the applicants' essays, transcripts, or anything else. The Harvard interviewer only knows about things like AP Calc iff the applicant chooses to bring it up when the two of them meet at a downtown Starbucks. While I'm sure the PP who is getting all starry-eyed about Harvard is well-intentioned, she's ignoring lots of helpful info, and this is not to her advantage. If, however, she really only wants to listen to bona fide admissions officers, then DCUM is not the place. This poster needs to go to College Confidential where some admissions officers do monitor threads and post. Or, she needs to call admissions offices directly. However, she is going to get spin mixed in with the useful advice. (For a laugh, Crazy U's description of the Harvard tour, or some of the other admissions marketing materials his kid receives.) |
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8:09 again. To expand on one point, and to bring it out: college admissions offices often want to maximize the number of applicants. To that end, they have been known to encourage kids to apply even if, objectively, these kids have little or no chance.
Therefore, I'm not convinced the PP will get a straight answer about Calc AB vs. BC from a college admissions office. Of course there is no one-size-fits-all answer, and colleges do take all kinds of kids. But I would worry that the college admissions office answers will be shaded towards the side of "you won't know until you try, because we take all kinds of kids," which serves their purposes more than a straight-forward "last year we took very few prospective STEM majors who had not done Calc BC." She really does need to consult a range of sources, including, dare I say it, DCUM parents who have gone through the process. |
07:36 here. I agree with your sound advice. With that said, calling that poster names (or any poster) diminishes any legitimate argument one might make. For me, it says your goal is not to disseminate informative but to create dissension. IMHO, valid points can get lost in unnecessary, mean-spirited name calling. I guess I'm just old as we were taught you can verbally spar and disagree without all the other nonsense. |
There are multiple posters here and I'm not sure who you're addressing. I agree that sound advice can get lost amidst the name-calling. I suppose I'm not the only one here who suspects this is the same person who thinks Ivy League = sociopath, and/or objectected to how she characterized our advice as "speculation" when it was based on facts and experience. But yes, we should rise above that and try to help her. |
It's about conducting ourselves with a modicum of maturity and self-respect without resorting to negative adjectives as idiot, sociopath, etc, just because we unequivocally disagree with what someone said. I've watched this and other forums spiral downward with a serious lack of respectable decorum and, yes, it's troubling. Though, it does appear that's it's one or two people. Their pattern is discernable. I think I've said enough on this issue. I don't anticipate seeing a change in presentation from the one or two. |
You're attacking the posters who are pushing back on it. Why? |
SMH. Sigh....I give up. |
I get where you're coming from, PP. I've been guilty of boiling over too. Maybe I'll check myself before I hit that submit button. |