| It's that a private organization is running it and you can't just come in from the neighborhood. You also have non-union teachers who try to enrich the curriculum more than DCPS. Even so, it is not like a private school by any stretch if you know private school in DC. |
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OP here. Did the drive this morning, which I realized might not be the best day, since many federal workers have an alternative work schedule and are off on Fridays. In any case, getting to the school wasn't as bad as I had thought, but I still disliked having to drive. Parking did not look easy to find, but I didn't actually try to find parking. Driving to my daughter's daycare in downtown, however, via Rhode Island Avenue was awful. Bumper-to-bumper most of the way. I know that I could do it if by chance I got in, but I would hate it, and it would surely add a lot of stress to my life. Therefore, I don't think we are going to apply. We've had to cross other schools that we really liked, including Cap City, off our list because of the commute too.
Thanks for everyone for all your advice. It was really helpful in helping me make up my mind. |
I'm with you. I'll easily sacrifice proximity/convenience for quality. Education is a defining value in my family, it's how we got from dustbowl poverty to upper middle class in a generation. This is the most weighted factor in our decision-making. I hope many IT families feel the same. |
| Well I got flamed months ago for suggesting that I was no longer interested in IT since it was moving away from my nieghborhood. The claim was that I don't care about quality at all and was being selfish for having proximity as a concern. These are not extremes people - it is just lifestyle differences. Families weigh all the factors in their own way. Obviously I am concerned about the quality of school for my child. Isn't that a given for everyone? |
I can't imagine anyone getting flamed for stating something that is best for your family. I agree that quality of life has to be balanced with good educations. Thankfully, there are options in DC and I'm sure you will find a comparable school that is more convenient for you. |
You remind me of my single friends who would NEVER leave Manhattan. They would rather die than become B&T. And then they met someone and wanted a bigger commitment, and look. Park Slope is more affordable. (And they'd feel the need to justify it: the original wood floors and crown molding, the bakery nearby, there's a laid-back bar..., you'll be amazed when you visit, we're having a housewarming party...) Then baby #1 arrives, and there's a lot they can still make work with one baby. Two parents, one baby, and a bugaboo is a great way to live in Williamsburg. And the city is right there - just across the bridge. "We can go any time we want!" Then they confronted schools and the world changed. Between that and thinking about baby #2? "Montclair is so direct on the train, and we found this great Queen Anne Victorian, and it even has a little yard for a swing set, and there's a park around the corner." We can still meet for brunch on the weekends! And baby #2 arrives, and the schools are alright, but the commute is getting longer and longer because now how do you get home for the afterschool enrichment? The t-ball? The gymnastics? The pee-wee soccer? And when you realize that Arlington/Bethesda/DC (which is still expensive by almost everyone's standards, but is reasonable coming from NYC) includes grandparents (free babysitting!), better weather (less shoveling, but still real winter!), school options, work options.... And there's still metro. "We're still hip, damnit!" In spite of your under-developed self-talk, you find a way to take another step into the lifestyle of your own parents, which you mock and deride, because you're too cool for that. Eventually, one maturing step at a time, you become a grown-up yourself because of how your prioritize your children. Or, you remain in permanent adolescence with all its attendant hipster-douchebag glory. But I doubt it. It's those who crow the loudest, that are looking so seriously to the other side. You're trying to convince yourself, not the rest of us. And if you weren't leaning towards the other side, then you really wouldn't even be interested in this forum in the first place. |
I think "independent" is more the word. "Private" can be as varied in size, quality, etc. as "charter " can be. No category or label inherently means better schools than another. |
Agree |
I haven't heard it about MV or CM, but definitely have about LAMB, YY, and Washington Latin. And no, not Basis - not because it isn't a good school (it appears to be, thus far) but because it seems to revel in a sort of "encourage the nerdiness" attitude that is one-dimensional. The expectation of being well-rounded and accomplished in more than one direction (athletics, leadership, social development) may not be entirely absent, but isn't a priority. |
I kind of agree with this. When you become a parent AND choose to live EOTP, you may have to give something up like a car free lifestyle to get your child to a better school. The easy solution for PP is to move closer, walkable distance to an acceptable school. |
Sure. But lots of people have one child for these reasons. It's easier. It allows you to be more of YOU. Not saying it's a better choice, but what you describe actually isn't inevitable. |
Yeah, but crying about the fact that you may have to schlep your one child to an "acceptable" school makes you sound like an idiot who should have remained childless. |
CM is probably the school that is most often compared to private school. Really, search CM and private school on the search function. Not that it matters, we are applying to MV, IT, and CM
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Cm is like 7 minutes old. Wait, give it time to mature and grow in enrollment, get more competition from The Next Hot Charter, and then come back and tell us how much like Maret and Beauvoir it is. |
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I'm the poster who initially mentioned that
IT is like a private school and I want to clarify that! We are a founding family and now have two kids in the school. Before ITS was around we had our priority schools listed and applied to all. We got into inspired in their first year and were thrilled but were still wondering about the move (then from the first location to the current location). We went with it and our child Loved the first year at the location in NE. When they moved to the current location we were not thrilled but we made it work. The main thing we didn't like about the current location is the lack of an outdoor space, but the teachers have been awesome about taking the kids to parks and discover the neighborhood. When I say that I feel like we get a private school for free this is what is refer to: in my daughters pre-k class they have 3 full time dedicated teaches (one being a master teacher), they listen to the children and take their likes and personalities into consideration when planning projects and lessons and when I have an issue I fell like I can always go to the principal and make suggestions. Also the parent body is amazing! We have made lifelong friends and when I go to a school meeting I walk Away with a sense that the school leadership, lead by the principal and parent organization has listened to me. This is a school Were I as a parent feel part as a team! |