Am I being overly sensitive or justtified with my feelings?

Anonymous wrote:The most telling sentence of OP's post was "...I replied "Thank You" and she should have known how upset I was based on that curt response" (paraphrase). You should like a high school girl playing text games with a boy you have a crush on.

I'd be curious to see if you have an Excel spreadsheet that tracks the Happy Birthday wall post metrics that you receive on a given year.

At the end of the day, you should be grateful she thought of you. You never know what kind of circumstances were happening with her day (in a long meeting w/ no time to make a call, family commitment etc.). A good friend should receive the benefit of the doubt, not this petty B.S.

You sound completely self-absorbed. Friends to you seem like nothing more than "people who haven't offended me at a given moment in time."

Glad my friends are above this pettiness.

So many good responses. I don't think the OP is ridiculous, but she is being oversensitive. She's also projecting how important she thinks birthdays are onto everyone else.

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12/23/2013 23:32

Subject: Am I being overly sensitive or justtified with my feelings?

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Anonymous

For my best friends, I will call. I may send a FB message as well, but a phone call is a must. Otherwise, I am not very particular about going out of my way to acknowledge people's birthdays except my close family.