No, but they are causing the breakdown of other local school communities as the AAP classes and center schools become so crowded. As a result, new centers have to opened, often turning what was once a mutually supportive, congenial environment into a collection of stressed-out nutbags all trying to get a "leg up" for their kids. But of course is you only care about your child/children then perhaps that doesn't trouble you. |
No, someday my kid will be the Tiger Moms kid's therapist. |
If that much preparation were needed to be successful, and your goal was to get her "in," then congratulations! Her enhanced scores do not suggest giftedness. |
If you believe it is ethical, and hard work, then list the prep on the AAP parental question. Talk about how hard the child prepared for the ability tests. If you are unwilling to do that because you are worried how it will look, then it is unethical. If you think the preparation is a plus, then the committee should know about the prep. |
If you believe it is ethical, and hard work, then list the prep on the AAP parental question. Talk about how hard the child prepared for the ability tests. If you are unwilling to do that because you are worried how it will look, then it is unethical. If you think the preparation is a plus, then the committee should know about the prep. +100 |
omg stop talking everyone |
I wonder if the psychologist above had their child do SAT prep or if they let their kid walk into the test cold…just sayin |
Practicing for a standardized test is quite different from practicing for the Wisc. It would skew the results and defeat the purpose of the test--which is to measure--not "give your child a leg up". |
Tiger mom kids are never "boss." They don't have the critical thinking skills needed to be leaders. They're great worker bees and often excel in fields like science or medicine, but never as the boss/leader. Think of art, film, science, fashion, technology- what great inventions were born by the kid of a Tiger Mom??? Nothing. Cultures like those of the Chinese do great jobs at copying and replicating, but not inventing or creating. And the WISC is an intelligence test meant to test a child's innate abilities. There is something seriously wrong if a child needs to be prepped for an intelligence test... Posts like these make me so glad I don't live in VA. I'll take my NW DC private school world where, ironically, most parents aren't caught up in the test prepping Kumon world. |
My kids didn't do SAT prep except to take a few practice tests at home on the computer. Daughter did great! Far more than she needed--son did fine, too. |
It is interesting to see how many parents trying to get into an advanced program clearly don't understand what it means to truly be intellectually gifted. Most kids, gifted or otherwise will prep for a standardized test like the SAT, but if you need to prep your kid for an IQ test like the WISC, they surely are not gifted. And as for the teacher who says some kids with learning disabilities might not do as well, the fact is that a fully battery of tests will identify and account t for the LD's and won't negatively impact the child's adjusted score, so that doesn't wash either.
Better to just admit that you want to child to be a high achiever or that your child is highly motivated on their own, regardless of IQ. Many kids who fall into the average range actually do better than gifted kids, both in school and in life. The higher a persons IQ, the more likely they are to suffer from a list of other challenges- emotional sensitivities, sensory processing issues, perfectionism, food allergies, etc. parenting a gifted child is no walk in the park, and watching your child fall apart in school because they can't deal with the boredom and the pace of the curriculum is upsetting and difficult. These kids have higher dropout rates and higher suicide rates that's the general population. So, prep all you want to get in, but realize that there are kids out there that NEED these programs as much as other kids needs special Ed programs to make it through. While it might seem all the rage to be able to say your kid is in a gifted program, walk a mile in the shoes of a parent who is dealing with a truly gifted child before you decide it is the status symbol many make it out to be. This of us sitting in that seat would trade you places in a heartbeat. |
This thread is a year old. If you want to continue the discussion, there's an AAP forum now. |
...omg...three year old thread. Who are you people? |
Couldn't agree with you more. And it's a shame AAP is so full of kids who do not need any special program whatsoever. AAP should be reserved for kids who have learning issues that cannot be addressed in a regular classroom. The kids in AAP at our center are exactly like the kids in general ed, making us wonder why on earth they are in a special program. |
so there are some unethical ones? Do they work? |