Cya select

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:We’re affiliated with CYA, not through basketball but through girls lacrosse, so I can relate. There are a couple of moms who are just relentless, criticizing kids for missing shots or not catching the ball. It feels way more intense than it needs to be for a rec sport. I honestly feel bad for the moms who bring that kind of negativity to the game.

Let me guess… Crossfield moms!

Ozempic mom?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:We have played CYA for years (boys) and have had wonderful coaches in both rec and select/travel. Curious to know specifics because generally everyone has seemed lovely in do know there are some wild parents that recently chased out a coach but not sure what happened there.

Really? All the drama and crazy behavior seems to happen at SYA. Then people leave SYA for CYA.

SYA just tried to cheat with one of their FCYBL teams and got caught and the team was kicked out of the league.

oh come on, tell us the story

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We’re affiliated with CYA, not through basketball but through girls lacrosse, so I can relate. There are a couple of moms who are just relentless, criticizing kids for missing shots or not catching the ball. It feels way more intense than it needs to be for a rec sport. I honestly feel bad for the moms who bring that kind of negativity to the game.

Let me guess… Crossfield moms!

Ozempic mom?

This poor lady is getting skewered all over DCUM this week.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We’re affiliated with CYA, not through basketball but through girls lacrosse, so I can relate. There are a couple of moms who are just relentless, criticizing kids for missing shots or not catching the ball. It feels way more intense than it needs to be for a rec sport. I honestly feel bad for the moms who bring that kind of negativity to the game.

Let me guess… Crossfield moms!

Ozempic mom?

This poor lady is getting skewered all over DCUM this week.

Oh boy I think I know who you are referring to after seeing a photo and suspecting this, but haven’t seen in person to confirm, plus this comment.
Maybe the skewering is karma for bringing so much negativity to all the youth sports, and probably all the non-sport things, that her kids are involved with. I have no patience or sympathy for parents who openly criticize other people’s children on the sidelines.

[Anonymous]

But who’s going to coach now that she chased off another one?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:We have played CYA for years (boys) and have had wonderful coaches in both rec and select/travel. Curious to know specifics because generally everyone has seemed lovely in do know there are some wild parents that recently chased out a coach but not sure what happened there.

Really? All the drama and crazy behavior seems to happen at SYA. Then people leave SYA for CYA.

SYA just tried to cheat with one of their FCYBL teams and got caught and the team was kicked out of the league.

What my DH heard was that they have a new guy in charge who is really dumb, and he said they didn't know they weren't allowed to have Loudoun County kids on their teams. So their 6th grade girls eam only had 9 players, and minus the ineligible Loudoun kids, they didn't have enough players.

[Anonymous]

Oh please, they tried to cheat and got caught.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh please, they tried to cheat and got caught.

He wasn’t expecting them to check. Smh

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:CYA sports parents, particularly in basketball, are some of the worst people I have encountered in my adult life. Some really nice coaches and parents, but it gets ruined by the ones who could not care less about development of the kids as players or people, and just want to use youth sports to boost their own pathetic egos. And people in charge who let adults act this way and do nothing to address problems.

Really surprised to read this as have done CYA basketball for many years now. Couple bad apples like any league but overall parents and especially coaches have been well meaning and reasonable. Are you talking house or travel side?

The bad apples are on the board. Shyrock, JP, Rein, etc. those guy’s are some real scumbags.

And they protect the scumbags that are a known problem and keep letting them be involved. It’s driving families away from CYA.

Is this in rec or travel? and boys or girls?

All of the above. They run all of basketball.

There is a woman named Monica over there and I think she tries to be decent, but never saw her correct the others. Forgot her last name.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Oh please, they tried to cheat and got caught.

He wasn’t expecting them to check. Smh

I'm actually shocked that FCYBL noticed and did something about it. They seem to have really started to let cheating slide the past few years.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh please, they tried to cheat and got caught.

He wasn’t expecting them to check. Smh

I'm actually shocked that FCYBL noticed and did something about it. They seem to have really started to let cheating slide the past few years.

If this is true, and FCYBL actually did some proactive checking, that would be such a positive development for basketball in this area. Enforce the rules, make the shady coaches look elsewhere and overall league and county basketball experience improves immediately.

That said, I expect this resulted more from multiple "reports" to fcybl leadership who then had no choice but to act (vs. proactively performing the correct monitoring/enforcement). Hopefully they'll still elect to adopt some basic procedures to do that.

[Anonymous]

I'm actually shocked that FCYBL noticed and did something about it. They seem to have really started to let cheating slide the past few years.

FCYBL didn’t check. Someone(parents or coach) reported it to them . Lol