My income was around 50k/yr to 100K/yr from 1990 until 2000, 120K/yr to 200K/yr from 2001 until 2010, 400K from 2011 until now at the age of 58. According to SSA, my benefits would be $2753/month at the age of 62, $4019/month at the at age of 67, and $5015/month. |
No one forced you to have a baby at age 45. Or to upgrade your house and take on a new 30 year mortgage. It’s your own fault you’ll be forced to work until you’re 85, if you’re even lucky enough to live that long- neither of my parents did. Personal choices. And math may be hard but someone could have kids starting at 30 and be able to get them launched by 57. |
We don't need it. But plan to take it at 62 simply because we don't trust SS to still be paying out without major changes in the future. So in 8 years, we will just start collecting to maximize our payouts |
| Look into impact on tax strategy, you don’t want to Tao it of planning o do Roth conversion |
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Op, it's obvious this far from this thread, but there are so many individual factors involved that there's no "right" answer. Among the things to consider are:
- whether you need the money immediately - longevity in your and your spouse's family - who is the higher earner - the age difference, if any, between you and your spouse - whether you have reason to keep your income down after you retire (Roth conversions, ACA subsidies, etc.) - whether you or your spouse has a pension For us, I am the (much) higher earner, and plan to take it at 70. Even though my wife is 3 years older than I am, her life expectancy exceeds mine, both on the actuarial tables and taking into account family history/longevity. I'd would like her to have the higher survivor benefits. Neither of us have pensions, and we do have decent retirement assets (~$4m at 53/56). My parents, both of whom have pensions, took it at 62. I will say, the one thing that I seem to disagree with most people about is the focus on the "break even point." I spend now and will spend in the future exactly zero time thinking out if I have broken even on SS. I just don't care. All I care about is doing what is best for my family. If that means deferring until 70 for the peace of mind, and perhaps not getting every last nickle out of SS, I'm fine with that. |
Do you have any tax advantaged accounts with high balances? If so, RMDs are coming for ya. |
+1 Had first at 30, 2nd at 33, that one will graduate college in May. I will be 55. If you want to retire "early" then don't have a kid at 45+, and work to pay off your home, not upgrade and have a massive mortgage still |
Yes. We also have a disabled adult child and it's much better if I take it early and DH waits. |
Yes. We also have a disabled adult child and it's much better if I take it early and DH waits. |
Actually my broker once told me you can’t be 30 when you’re 80. Went on a wild spending spree at 29. Had a Jeep Wrangler plus a Mercedes Convertible plus a NYC Coop and a place in Hamptons. Had three girlfriends, went skiing 10-20 times a year, and I went to clubs 100-200 times a year and hung out with celebs. Finally around 34 after dating several hundred girls, owning 8-9 cars, going on tons of vacations and spending every cent I had ready to settle down. My broker was right you can be 80 when 30. And sadly no morale to story a car accident caused by a surgeon that hit me I got a big settlement to make me even. Got out of debt paid off my mortgage too. I don’t feel like retiring young as I partied till 36. And no not broke I could retire if I wanted. I just find it pathetic people in their 60s pretending to be young. You are old, bald, fat and wrinkled in a 55 plus community in Florida. Me in Aspen Skiing, Southampton in Summer, spring break, Cancun, LA, Miami in my 20s tanned and in shape was fun. Me doing it now sad. If anything I wish I got married later. Kids keep you young. Might sound crazy if my wife died would not mind remarrying a younger woman and having some more kids. I plan on living forever, so far so good I encourage all people wait till 40 to get married, |
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Pretty easy to retire early with only two kids. I would not sacrifice having more kids to retire young, seems selfish |
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This one is a keeper. |
Never had any desire to have more than 2 kids. It's actually selfish to do so, unless you are adopting. We don't need more people on this planet. 2 kids is part of "replace yourself". But if I did, I would have had my kids only 2 years apart (not 3-4) and would have been done by time I was 36/37 |
| For the PPs with disabled adult children, I'm in the same boat. I'm younger than my DH by 2 years, but the higher earner as he scaled back his job to be the lead with our child. He's 2 years from 62, should he take SS as soon as he's eligible. Where does the consideration that we have a disabled adult child come into play? Does that mean I should wait until 68 or 70? Thanks for any thoughts or insights you may have. |