| Good threads with very depressing answers about the state of our work life. And I feel like corporations hate workers more and more. They trick us into offering us high salaries but with abyssinal benefits. |
| My dad died at 67. His dad died at 50. I’d like to enjoy life and not work til I’m dead. |
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Jobs today suck.
In my 30s I planned to work until I was 70. But now I will be out at 65 with my Medicare. 16 months! |
Woo hoo! I’m about to turn 57 and figuring out if I can make it another 8 years. |
| I plan to do some part time or consulting but I really want to leave my 9-5. I want to be able to move to a warmer place in the winter- the arthritis is killing me with the snow/cold |
Only 15% of people voluntarily retire The other 85% are forced due to physical problems/ailments or are fired at an age where nobody will hire them for the same kind of job (and they have enough saved to have an OK retirement…but not the retirement they wanted). |
What do you look for |
| Because we know we aren’t going to live as long as boomers or have as much financial security. Our lives are more stressful than the lives our parents led. All the indicators are there. If I’m going to die young I’d like to live first. |
Please provide a citation for these likely made up numbers. |
Yikes ! This is giving me "dark web" vibes |
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To a PP’s point, I worked for an abusive boss so bad I would vomit at home from the stress.
The previous employee was training me, and I later learned she was leaving due tot he abuse. I was yelled at by my boss for not using purple ink to write. It was crazy town. Eventually, I quit and she threatened me. I made sure to leave the key with HR and get a receipt so I would not be accused of stealing. Total nightmare. I had an abusive mom, so my first several jobs were working for abusive people. |
+1 And all of those European countries that everyone on this forum think are perfect? They offer way more vacation and work/life balance. But they won’t let you immigrate there. |
Retire! It's not worth the hassle. The bolded happens in private sector too and is so annoying. |
This. I'm mid-50s and my parents were forced out when they were my age. It was a shock to them, and as a result I saved enough $ so that it wouldn't be a shock to me. On top of that, I'm friggin' tired. I've been working since I was 12. Honestly, I'd love to take a year or so off and then re-evaluate, but agism is real, and getting hired in your 50s-60s is rare. I feel like I've got plenty to do - hobbies, kids, travel, 2 houses to take care of, old people to take care of, maybe future grandkids, etc. Upside: I'm set to retire. Downside: I have a scarcity mindset. |
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I went air force > college > work force. I have some VA disability coming through.
By the time I was 30, I had 500kish saved up between TSP and brokerage. I was able to “retire early” and be a SAHM/volunteer. We weren’t born to create slide decks under fluorescent bulbs in a stacked concrete structure. There’s so much more to life than creating shareholder value. |