You can cry about it or just jump on the bandwagon. I get it, NOBODY wants to see their daughter quit softball but trust me, there is just as much character building going on with volleyball as any other team sport. And have you watched a game? It is wild. The games are wall to wall action and when the whistle blows you can't tell who got the point because BOTH teams are high fiving each other. Sure the basketball uniforms and soccer uniforms are more modest than the sprayed on spanks they use in volleyball and they smack each other on the butt way too much, but as dads we're just going to have to get comfortable with the fact that our little girls are not little girls anymore and unfortunately volleyball is the gateway drug to fake nails and jewelry. |
Geno Auriemma: "The big difference between a really good player and a great player is: great players don't get tired. They just don't. And what makes them great is when the good players get tired the great players kick their ass. That's the difference. So everyday we're working on that. Everyday we're working on that. We can coach ball screens, passing into the post, cutting, and play defense, but we're just not here to coach your energy level or your effort. That's a given. You wouldn't be here if I had to coach that. That's what other coaches have to do, they have to coach energy. I don't. Ya'll know that, ya'll know that." |
VB mom here and I approve this post. đ And who cares if this particular sport is cardio heavy! Baseball certainly isnât, and no one is talking about the bball players chewing tobacco or growing beards etc. I think itâs kind of sexist when people slam VB for what the girls wear and for not being cardio heavy. Who cares. I think certain parts of society love very particular kinds of âsportyâ girls who like the contact of soccer or basketball and get sweaty etc ⌠I know of one dad who praises this about his soccer daughter constantly⌠because he wishes heâd had a boy and is doing all sorts of mental stuff around that. Anyway- agree, VB dad. |
Iâm sure youâre rightâbut my kid played travel in late elementary and middle school so that was Dec-June and didnât have sports teams at school. She dropped vball by high school (wasnt passionate about it so not that good, and she did theater instead) |
This is correct. We've been to several clubs for clinics / leagues and most of them don't do anything cardio. Some lazy warmup, then the players get the ball for drills and games. Among all the clubs we've had experience with, the only exception was Metro, where the warmup is followed by a drill that drains you. You get a set of hurdles at one end of the gym that keep going higher and higher as the drill progresses. The players then sprint toward the coaches who throw a ball (most of the time out of the reach of the players). The only chance of getting that ball is to run like hell and dive. |
| Evolution is holding their tryouts tomorrow and Wednesday. Itâs a smaller club, they do this purposely to catch the talent that didnât make it into the bigger clubs. |
I'm a mom to a volleyball player and a softball player, and your post sounds really sexist. Softball is great and harder than baseball in many ways. It's a very supportive female-first sport. The face shields are super important because if you get hit with a softball coming hard off a bat, it will shatter your nose and cheekbones and orbital socket. Please don't act like girls are wimps for wearing important protective gear. Typically only the pitcher and maybe some infielders wear them. If you are on the mound, that ball is coming at you hard and fast. One of the skill sets for a pitcher is being able to hit the dirt in a split second so you don't end up concussed. Softball is different than baseball because with the heavier ball, you see more hard line drives (so more active play) -- you don't get those big sailing home runs much in softball. |
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My vball player and her friends played soccer all through grade school but mine just didn't enjoy the big field play of soccer, or the players on other teams kicking her shins or elbowing her chest all the time. I think the small, close-in action (but without players from the other team trying to foul you all the time) is more her speed. She's also not really a sprinter, so that held her back in soccer, but she's training cardio and weights for volleyball.
One thing I don't like about vball is the emphasis on height -- the college players, even at Div 3, are all over 5"10' except the librero (who still is typically taller than average). So a lot of girls get pushed out because they just aren't going to be that tall -- you basically have to be within the top 5% of women by height to be able to keep playing. My daughter is 5'7" as a 13 year old, but that's apparently short for a volleyball player. |
How is that different than a tournament in any other sport? A lot of times brackets are set up to pave the way for the highest seeded teams. For example in Baseball tournaments, there is usually a slaughter rule so if you are much stronger than your opponent, your pitchers only have to pitch maybe 4 innings and will be available to pitch again on the third day of the tournament. A mid ranked team has to burn through their pitchers and figure out how to save their best pitchers in case they advance. |
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So my point is being proven. VB is for girls who are "lazier" than girls who do other higher cardio sports.
My DD included. No shame! |
I get it. There is a hierarchy of cardio output required that determine how valid a sport is. So does that make cross country (or maybe distance swimming or middle distance track events) the pinnacle of all sports? Is an athlete lazy because they choose to play soccer instead of running cross country? |
Is that why someone was complaining earlier today that the answer to everything on the Sports General Discussion board is "switch to cross country?"
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Mine too. She always does her hair before a tournament lol. |
I don't know how many sports are geared towards smaller athletes. Size helps in pretty much every sport. Some sports have weight classes so you have a trade off between lower center of gravity and longer reach/arm of momentum. Some ports specifically require balance and lower center of gravity helps, gymnastics, skiing, etc. Some sports are easier if you are lighter, equestrian sports, cycling, etc. To the extent that smaller size leads to greater quickness, you generally see smaller liberos and smaller baseball infielders, smaller soccer forwards, etc. |
Funny how bad a coach he is when he doesn't get the best three recruits every year |