It's official: Gen Z are not delaying marriage til 30s anymore, young weddings are cool again

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So, will Gen X and Gen Z soon become grandparents sooner than expected? I don't think I'll be ready to be a grandma when my oldest is 22-25!

I’d love to be a young grandma. My aunt had to wait till she was 70.

I want my kids to decide when they have kids even if they decide not to. Not my life!

[Anonymous]

Married at 22, had kid at 30. After getting married, I went to grad school. Still married 24 years later. It is possible to have a career, go to grad school, etc. after getting married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So, will Gen X and Gen Z soon become grandparents sooner than expected? I don't think I'll be ready to be a grandma when my oldest is 22-25!

I’d love to be a young grandma. My aunt had to wait till she was 70.

I want my kids to decide when they have kids even if they decide not to. Not my life!

+1000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What about the other trend of not marrying at all?

I have coworkers with babies who are not married.

This is the actual trend. But it doesn't fit in with the current narrative being pushed

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So, will Gen X and Gen Z soon become grandparents sooner than expected? I don't think I'll be ready to be a grandma when my oldest is 22-25!

I’d love to be a young grandma. My aunt had to wait till she was 70.

Please don't pressure your kids for that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So, will Gen X and Gen Z soon become grandparents sooner than expected? I don't think I'll be ready to be a grandma when my oldest is 22-25!

I’d love to be a young grandma. My aunt had to wait till she was 70.

Me too! I'd love to see my grandkids become adults.

1. Marrying young does not equal kids young. They could wait a decade for kids. They could not want children or they could struggle for a decade with infertility.

2. You could die and never know your grandkids

3.your children may not want you to know your grandkids

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:20-yo Millie Bobby Brown and 22-yo husband (Bon Jovi's model son) just revealed their gorgeous wedding photos on social media to her 65 million followers. MBB is a trend setter. This follows influencer Sofia Richie getting married and quickly pregnant last year when she was just 24-yo. Pendulum has swung, gen Z'ers consider it is un-cool and weird to wait until late 20s or 30s to settle down.

LOL! These are kids who never have to worry about careers or money.

To say nothing of the fact that they likely will no longer be married within 10 years. Maybe 5?

This. Anyone who thinks will last until they’re 30 is living in a fool’s paradise.

[Anonymous]

I am Gen x. We are 46-60 ish.

I think you mean millennials

[Anonymous]

Z-List celebrity weddings aside… college is a great time to meet your future spouse. These kids are looking at millennials trying to date off the apps and (rightfully) deciding that looks pretty bleak. They don’t have to have kids right away and can still travel, pursue advanced degrees, and/or build careers while married.

[Anonymous]

Nah, the rich kids always got married young in their 20s. They already had a career mapped out for them and financial safety net in case the marriage floundered.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What about the other trend of not marrying at all?

I have coworkers with babies who are not married.

This is the actual trend. But it doesn't fit in with the current narrative being pushed

It’s also not a trend that lends itself to glitzy social media content. Unmarried and no kids in your 40s is quickly becoming the norm for millennials.

https://fortune.com/well/2023/07/05/millennial-40-year-old-quarter-never-married-pew/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:20-yo Millie Bobby Brown and 22-yo husband (Bon Jovi's model son) just revealed their gorgeous wedding photos on social media to her 65 million followers. MBB is a trend setter. This follows influencer Sofia Richie getting married and quickly pregnant last year when she was just 24-yo. Pendulum has swung, gen Z'ers consider it is un-cool and weird to wait until late 20s or 30s to settle down.

LOL! These are kids who never have to worry about careers or money.

To say nothing of the fact that they likely will no longer be married within 10 years. Maybe 5?

This. Anyone who thinks will last until they’re 30 is living in a fool’s paradise.

They’re gorgeous young adults and extremely wealthy. The world is their oyster. That will also make it hard to stay together, because they don’t really need to. If MBB keeps acting, she may have an unpredictable lifestyle and schedule. Not sure what her husband does. Famous women often have husbands who struggle with their fame and living in their shadow. Maybe the younger generation is different. It would be great if it worked out for them. But I won’t be advising my kids to get married that young.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Our mid 20’s kids have spent the last few years going to many weddings of same aged friends. It definitely seems like lots of people are getting married in their mid 20’s these days. Their friends all have jobs/careers but don’t seem to feel their career path is their identifier like some recent generations had.

I agree with the PP who said that many of them grew up having older parents and they don’t want that for their kids.

I remember a lot of starter marriages when I was that age. So lots of people got married in their 20’s. A lot of those couples got divorced early, many without children.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Z-List celebrity weddings aside… college is a great time to meet your future spouse. These kids are looking at millennials trying to date off the apps and (rightfully) deciding that looks pretty bleak. They don’t have to have kids right away and can still travel, pursue advanced degrees, and/or build careers while married.

+1 It is bleak. A lot of people do meet in grad school though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Now that it's hard to afford a house, and careers aren't stable at all, why wait?

What was ever the point of wasting your 20s on drunken hookup culture, dating apps, travel, and consuming? Married to a career, while your looks and fertility slipped away. We were discouraging our kids not to fall in love in college because that was destined to fail, it was somehow low and unsophisticated to marry young, and they should only be focused on a career. Such terribly destructive advice pushed on young adults the last few decades.

You forgot to mention the bottomless brunches! God help us